Everyone will be in a bad mood sometimes, not to mention some girls who are easily emotional. So when the girl you like is in a bad mood, how should you comfort her and make her happy?</ p>
You must know that comforting a girl is actually to ease her emotions, rather than helping her solve her problem.
For example, girls are in a bad mood because their work is not going well or they have conflicts with their parents and best friends.
We obviously can’t solve her problem with this kind of thing. This is her business, her family matter, so as the other party, we don’t have to help her come up with the topic. What we have to do is express our feelings for her. Understanding of feelings is enough.
In the process of dating our girls, even when we are already boyfriend and girlfriend, it is very common to encounter girls who are in a bad mood and feel depressed.
But the problem is that many boys may comfort girls in the same way that our parents comforted us when we were children, such as: "Don't cry" or "Don't be unhappy, I will take you to eat well" Food”
This kind of comfort method is wrong, and if it is not comforted well, it will also bring about the following disadvantages The consequences:
(1) The girl will feel that you don’t care about her at all
(2) It may lead to worse results, that is, you will also feel that the girl is too If you are too pretentious, you may think that such a small thing is not like this
(3) Entering a vicious circle, she may not tell you anything she is unhappy about in the future, because she feels that it is okay to tell you. Bai said.
So, let me teach you a set of versatile chat techniques to comfort and amuse girls when they are in a bad mood.
I have a step here. Remember this comfort step, and you will have ideas for comforting girls
Steps: Empathy - Understanding - Transfer
< p> For example:Let’s start with empathy. For example, a girl is in a bad mood because she had an quarrel with her parents, which triggers the girl’s headwind mentality.
The first step of empathy
You can say to a girl: "I have experienced your troubles too. , I am still deeply involved in it. My parents also think it is "for my own good", but they also restrict me from doing many things, and I have had several quarrels. To be honest, I really don't want to quarrel with them. Every time after the quarrel, I feel very uncomfortable. "I feel guilty and wronged at the same time."
The purpose of saying this is to let the girl understand that she has had the same experience as you, and that you are in the same mood. The effect of this is to make the girl understand A girl thinks you can understand her. After saying thisAfter the conversation, the girl may be silent for a while, or she may reply to you: "Yes~", and then we will talk about the next comfort steps.
The second step of understanding
You continue to say to the girl:
"I think about it later, my parents are getting older and it is not possible to change their ideas. Realistically, I would still pay attention to many things on my own. Later, I came to understand each other that my parents just like to nag, because if they didn’t nag, we might just ignore them. They all need love and being loved. "Love"
This is an understanding reply, telling girls that you are a filial man, and that while you respect your parents, you are also a man with your own opinions. This kind of comfort is not only comfort, but also charm and value output.
The third step of transfer
The so-called transfer is to transfer the current unhappy emotions of girls
Find an opportunity to interact and say:
"Seeing that you are so sad, let me go with you to have a delicious meal~" If a girl can drink, then you can use this sentence After the words, add "You are allowed to drink a little bit of wine this time~"
Of course, whether she goes or not is another matter. This is not the point. The point is that if she goes, you will make good progress. relation.
Why do you say this?
First of all, because the girl is in a bad mood at this time, the comfort method we used earlier can already make the girl feel that you understand her well, are charming and have a story. For men, it invisibly increases attraction. Secondly, the method of "drinking" can increase the interactivity of the meeting. Maybe you will have a story this time.
Many boys will be an emotional trash can when girls are in a bad mood and just listen to girls vent. In fact, this is wrong, because since a girl will tell you that she is in a bad mood, it means that I also hope you can comfort yourself.
So, what we need to do is to provide her with more emotional value during the chat, so that she can be more willing to get closer to you and like you.
