In life, many girls show a cold side. Some girls are cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and seem difficult to approach; some girls are hot on the outside and cold on the inside. They seem to be easy to get along with, but it is difficult to get close to her heart. . So how do you pursue a girl who has a cold personality?
There are generally two situations when girls are cold: one is a girl They are introverted and unsociable; the other is to disguise themselves as aloof because they have been emotionally hurt and are afraid of meeting a scumbag again.
No matter what kind of aloof girls I am, I should work hard to explore their inner world, interact with them more in chat, arouse her interest, and slowly warm her heart. This type of chat is an emotional rollercoaster.
Just like a roller coaster in an amusement park, with ups and downs, a girl’s emotions will rise and fall with you. The way to make girls feel better is to "praise" and "create suspense".
Praise means praising her, for example, you are so beautiful. Of course, praising a beautiful girl for her good looks has no effect. Because she was tired of hearing this kind of love talk. When we praise girls, we must praise them to the point in their hearts, "Moisturizing things silently":
Male: (Help the girl open the can)
Female: I will do it myself.
Male: I thought that a beautiful girl like you would need help from a boy in this situation.
This way of praising her will distinguish you from other boys. No matter how cold-hearted a girl is, she will feel happy when she hears this kind of praise.
Another way to chat is to "create suspense" so that girls can't guess what you want to say next. , can also arouse girls' emotions.
For example:
Female: What do you do?
Male: They all call me network administrator.
Female: Oh...Does it cost nothing for you to surf the Internet?
Male: Not only does it cost nothing, but you also get free coffee breaks, an independent office, and a full-time car service. ..
Female: What Internet cafe offers such good treatment?
Male: Network Information Security Department.
To mobilize girls’ emotions, you must first suppress your emotions, otherwise the greater your expectations, the greater your disappointment. The most important thing is not to exaggerate the facts, otherwise girls will think you are pretending. The biggest advantage of doing this is that it makes girls think you are challenging, especially aloof girls who are very competitive.
When girls’ emotions climb upward, weYou can use "humor" or "ridicule" to appropriately let her emotions dive downwards. You must know that aloof girls are not good at making jokes.
So we should laugh at ourselves more. For example:
Female: Where did you go to college?
Male: I graduated from Wudaokou Vocational and Technical College.
Female: Huh?
Male: You can also call it Tsinghua University.
With ridiculing humor, it can leave a deep impression on girls. If you directly tell the name of the school, girls may not have any impression.
If you can skillfully use the above two techniques when communicating with a cold girl, I believe she will be very willing to chat with you, so that you will have more time and opportunity to get close to and understand her.