You just met the person you like, but you don’t know how to chat because you are not familiar with them?
You have known the person you like for a long time, but you still can’t progress the relationship?
Today, the editor will teach you 3 methods on how to quickly get closer to the person you like.
1. Discover information about girls
The key to getting closer to the person you like is to get closer to the person you like. .
We can first inquire about her hobbies from the side, and then pretend that "I like this too". In the eyes of girls, your common hobbies are the result of a collision.
Okay, here comes the question, how do we discover girls’ hobbies?
The common method is to guess through the girl’s nickname and avatar, and look through the girl’s circle of friends and Social updates, or asking about girls’ friends. These friends must be able to think of it.
But if you want to say that a girl’s nickname and avatar are very common, what should you do if she doesn’t post in Moments and has no friends? Well, here’s another tip for you, listen to the song, you always have the girl’s phone number.
You can now open a common music-listening software on your mobile phone, use the "Contact Friends" function, search for the girl's phone number and find her homepage, so that you can get her playlist.
2. Appropriate compliments
When getting along with girls, you should give appropriate compliments If the other party says it, come and please the girl.
What should be noted here is "appropriate". Because once we fail to master this degree, wouldn't we become... something like that? Then we would become another animal.
If you want to be a "rainbow boy" that attracts girls, there are three key points:
(1) Your compliments must be specific, otherwise the other party will think you are I'm perfunctory with her.
That is to say, you can’t just praise a girl’s beauty and that’s it. You have to praise her as “she’s like a fish, her eyes are white, her teeth are beautiful, she’s beautiful, she’s fragrant, etc.”...
(2) Rather than praising a girl for something that everyone is praising, it is far better to praise something that no one else has praised. For example, if others are praising a girl for being "good-looking", you can go and praise her for "having a good-looking boyfriend."
If she says, "I don't have a boyfriend yet," you can look in the mirror and tell her, "Isn't your boyfriend?" But if she says "thank you"...
(3) You can even praise something that even the girl didn't notice. This will make the girl feel that you are paying special attention to her, which means you are expressing interest without revealing your needs.
Friends, you might as well think about it, what are the parts of a girl that even she would not notice? Yes, that’s right, it’s the back of the head. You can praise girls.""The brain shape is beautiful", everyone knows it.
3. Show yourself just right
Want to succeed To attract a girl's attention and bring the relationship closer, you must also learn to show her your value "just right". The degree of showing value is very important. Don't show it just for the sake of showing it.
Value includes your visual value, behavioral value, etc.
Generally speaking, visual value is how you feel to girls at first glance. Most boys will get a basic impression score of 60 points if they dress up a little. Not difficult.
The behavioral value is mostly skills above the passing line, used to make up for the remaining 40 points.
For example, show that you can cook and you are good at it. Work hard; you grow flowers, you know how to make coffee; you pet cats, you... pay attention to the roots of trees. Generally speaking, as long as you are a good boy in the worldly sense, it is not difficult to get these 40 points.
To sum up, if you want to quickly get closer to the person you like, you must first discover the girl’s hobbies, then know how to praise in a timely manner, and finally be good at building your own circle of friends.
