Many boys have such a problem. When flirting with girls on WeChat, because they have no ideas to broaden the topic, they always run out of topics while chatting and become silent. But it felt like there were millions of words in my heart that I wanted to say to her, but I couldn't find the words to say them. In the end, the relationship between the two parties became weaker and weaker, and they became close friends.
1. You + her + environment
1. Find topics from girls (including WeChat names, Avatar, circle of friends, photos, etc.)
For example: Your new avatar is very beautiful, like a little fairy descending to earth.
Looking at your circle of friends, it turns out that you also like cats. Some people say that girls who like cats are very caring.
2. Find topics from yourself (any topic that shows your own value)
For example: I just finished my workout and am exhausted
I just got off work and finally We have negotiated a project that we have been following for a long time, and I am very happy.
Or just take a photo of yourself now and send it to the girl.
3. Find topics from around you (weather, news, gossip, concerts, etc.)
For example: Many celebrities have divorced recently, what do you think?
A particularly interesting thing happened today.
Look at the weather forecast. It will rain heavily today. Remember to bring an umbrella when you go out to avoid catching a cold.
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2. Keyword Chat Method
Keyword Chat Method As the name suggests: seize the key words in the topic to maintain and continue the chat topic.
Therefore, when chatting with the other party, grab a certain keyword in the other party’s speech, and then use this keyword to talk about your experiences, opinions, thoughts, or feelings related to other people. stories, etc., you can maintain normal topic communication.
There are two types of keyword chat methods here: one is shallow level, and the other is deep level! The shallow level is used to establish basic dialogue connections, and the deep level is used to establish inner feelings. Emotional connection.
For example:
The girl said: "I was bullied by my colleagues today, so annoying."
(The key words in this sentence are: colleagues, bullying , annoying, then you can extend the topic from this direction):
Topic continuation example:
"How is your relationship with your colleagues?" (Keywords: colleagues)
p>"Yes, I feel that being bullied in the company must make me feel very unhappy." (Keywords: bullying)
"I understand. When I feel very upset, I always want to listen to music and drink. Do you do the same?" (Keywords: upset)
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p>3. Talk about topics that women are interested in
As the saying goes, know yourself and the enemy, and you will never be defeated in a hundred battles. Since we want to have a good chat with girls, we must have a deep understanding of what girls’ favorite chat topics are.
After summarizing, I found that: emotions, pets, food, gossip, art, and celebrities are all topics that women like.
Of course, we also have to prescribe the right medicine and decide the menu according to the needs of the people.
If you can lead the topic, talk about what you are good at, and lead girls to follow your rhythm, then you will successfully seduce this girl.
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