Before we find a suitable partner, we will always have many fantasies about the partner, and we will also set various standards or requirements for the partner in our hearts, and these standards can easily make people lose in relationships. judge. After all, a person who meets all your standards and requirements may not be so suitable for dating.
So how to judge whether a girl is worth dating? The following three criteria must be kept in mind.
1. Those who say people are right and wrong must be right and wrong people
As the old saying goes, people are said to be right and wrong. The person must be right or wrong.
Look at what kind of people often like to speak ill of others behind their backs? Especially their friends and people close to them.
I always feel that others have tampered with his cheese, and that their actions have harmed his interests.
But he never thought about whether he had done anything wrong, why others would treat him like this?
When he thought about it, he understood that he likes to talk about people around him. Most of the people lack self-reflection ability and sense of responsibility.
But when many people are in it, they will inevitably be blinded by hormones for a while.
After all, today he can speak to others in front of you, and tomorrow he can speak to you in front of others.
We always keep this in mind. Even if we do encounter such a person, we will be able to see through him at a glance and not give him a chance to hurt himself.
Of course, we have to control ourselves. Don’t betray all your friends in front of the other party when you get angry.
2. Where to place your feelings
It doesn’t matter whether a person is good or not, what matters is See if he treats you well. This is especially true when making friends and finding a partner.
You think he is a good person, but you see that he is generous to friends, respectful and loving to relatives and friends, and even friendly to strangers.
But here, he either ignores your needs, or he looks down on you and looks down on you.
Maybe some people may still wonder if they want to maintain their image in front of outsiders, so they only dare to express all their grievances and hardships in front of me.
A very important criterion to determine whether a person is worth dating is whether he or she can bring you positive emotional value.
If he doesn’t even care about your feelings, it’s better not to have this relationship at all.
Whether you are a boy or a girl, you all need care and comfort from others, so when you fall in love, you must find someone who knows how to consider you.
If the person you like always ignores your feelings and does things that disappoint you, it means that he actually cares about you at all, so don’t deceive yourself.
3. Is the progress of the relationship normal?
Some girls are not very interested yet, but they are asking you again Buying her this and that, the money is spent happily for her, but when it comes to talking about relationships, she will say to you: I haven't thought about it yet.
Let you fulfill your obligations as a boyfriend, but I never promised you this right. What do you think this is?
When you encounter such a person, stop your losses immediately!
There are also some people who are just making a lot of calculations in their minds and don’t know them at all. How long will it take for it to be a confession and intimate contact? Even if you are attracted to him or her at this time, you must keep your head clear.
Think carefully, is the progress of your relationship normal?
Especially when you think he is the perfect partner, you should calm down and think carefully.
After all, there is no perfect person in the world, so it is very likely that it is a trap set by others.
Sometimes, it’s not a bad thing to think more about yourself.
What is too presumptuous is definitely not love, it is probably sugar-coated cannonballs!
People who really care about you will consider you instead of being impatient. Yes, to hurt you in order to satisfy my own needs.
