In the fast-food society, the importance of these three words "I love you" is getting lower and lower. After all, it doesn't cost anything to say "I love you". It's very easy. So what should I do? How to judge whether a woman really loves you? Let’s take a look at 3 sincere signs that a woman loves you:
1. Be willing to accept your shortcomings
There is a sentence in "When Love Meets Fear": Love does not mean "you happen to be the doll that meets my collection requirements", but means "you are You, I completely understand and respect your uniqueness.” I will not decorate or embellish your features in order to deny or escape loneliness.
There are no perfect people in this world, let alone perfect lovers. I love you, so I accept your strengths and weaknesses, and I won't dislike you just because I see your shortcomings.
A woman who really loves you will not try to change you when facing your shortcomings, but will tolerate and understand you.
2. I am willing to try things for you that I have never done before
It doesn’t matter whether a woman loves you or not. What she said depends on what she did for you. When a woman is willing to try things for you that she has never done before, and is even willing to learn about it little by little, then she truly loves you.
3. Know how to give in instead of blaming you everywhere
Whether it is love or marriage, the process of getting along between two people It is inevitable that you will encounter some contradictions and conflicts. You can directly judge whether a woman truly loves you from the way she handles conflicts.
Recently, a friend was getting married, and the two of them were discussing taking wedding photos. My friend felt that the wedding photos must be more expensive, as this is the only time in a lifetime.
Her husband felt that wedding photos would become decorations in the future and there was no need to take such expensive photos. The two were in a stalemate.
"What are you doing with all this useless stuff? It will just be a decoration from now on. Why don't you save money to live a good life?" He disdained her waste.
"I just want to take a set of beautiful wedding photos, just once in my life. Am I asking too much?" my friend retorted aggrievedly.
The more the two quarreled, the more fierce they became, and neither one gave in. I originally planned to take wedding photos for a day, but I was in a bad mood. My husband left and my friends were also very angry. But this friend of mine really loved her husband, so when she got home in the evening, she cooked a table full of food and said to him: "Don't be angry, eat first, fill your stomach before thinking about these things."
After eating, both parties were relieved. The two discussed the wedding photos again and resolved the conflict.
4. Discover the other person’s bright spots
How can a woman who loves you be willing to make you angry? Even if there is a conflict, she will know how to give in.
If a woman always accuses you when dealing with some contradictions and conflicts and never gives in to you, then this woman must not love you that much.
In love, a woman is a person who always blames you and never lets you go. A woman who loves you will not fight tit-for-tat with her beloved man for the sake of so-called face.
A woman who truly loves you will know how to give in when the time is right.
< p> When a woman is willing to give in during an argument, it means that she does not want to affect your relationship because of trivial matters. She is willing to respect your opinion, which also shows that she really cares about you and truly loves you.Relationships never need to be so grand. It is about constantly discovering each other's strengths, tolerating and understanding each other in the trivial life.
Marriage is not about finding a perfect person to spend the rest of your life with, but using perfection.
