Some boys are actively single. I won’t go into detail about these boys. Today we will talk about some passively single boys. These boys are naturally insulated from love and are born to be single.
Who are born single?
1. Boys who only know how to kneel and lick
In the world of women, there are eternal Here’s a truth: Women like pugs, but they will never be with a guy who looks like a dog.
I once met a boy who pursued more than 20 girls to no avail. Although his conditions are not good, they are definitely not bad. He is the type who doesn't take the initiative and almost no girls take the initiative to like him.
Why did he pursue various types of girls with no results?
The reason is-he only kneels and licks girls when he pursues them. Breakfast delivered every day, instant response within 20 hours, responsive to girls’ requests, standing there all night showing sincerity, what’s the result? All refused.
Touched? Doesn't exist,
Kneeling and licking is often the least efficient but most expensive way to pursue. If a girl is not interested in you from the beginning, then even if you lick her to the end of the world, your upper limit will only be "boyfriend".
The kind of boy who chases a girl with average conditions and only knows how to kneel and lick her. In all likelihood, he is a boy who has a strong desire to fall in love but has never had a legitimate experience.
2. Play with secret love "exclusively"
There is a kind of boy who will uphold such a thought:
"As long as the girl is not married, Then I still have a chance."
But they never confess their feelings, they only lurk around girls and play secret crushes. In the end, he was the one who accompanied the girl all the way, but the girl never had a single thought about him.
Until one day, such a boy mustered up the courage to confess his love. As a result, the girl opened her eyes wide and said to him, "Aren't we good friends? I never thought you would think about that."< /p>
The boy came out awkwardly and said, "How could I like you? I was kidding you!" At this point, the boy did not give up and continued to play the role of "best friend" with peace of mind, secretly vowing "As long as I persist , the iron pestle will always be ground into a needle."
What’s the result? I have become a girl's bridesmaid. When I am desperate, I will comfort myself by saying, "The highest state of love is her happiness."
A good boy has spent the first half of his life successfully. "Bitter drama".
The kind of boy who, when it comes to love, says that he has had a "secret crush on a girl for three or even five years" doesn't need to think too much. He has never been in love. He has always been with his girlfriend. Fantasy about falling in love.
3. Words are not worthy of personal charmForce
One of the favorite things for young boys who have never been in love is to tell the world that "I will not marry her unless I meet a girl I like". Mao has not yet As for Chang Qi, he put on a "I'm the most awesome" attitude.
What’s the result?
It would be okay if this boy was really a domineering CEO with strong financial strength, but the reality is that this boy dared not type when chatting with girls. After finally meeting the girl, he hesitated for a long time. Another crotch sweat. A giant in words, a dwarf in action.
If you don’t have strong personal value support, such “bold words” will only make girls feel that “this boy is unreliable and unreasonable”. In addition to reducing the already low charm, other Useless.
He is the kind of boy who "punches hard behind the scenes but is submissive in reality". It can be seen at a glance that this young man has never been in love.
He may have had people he liked, but they were all scared away by what he did.
4. Habitual emotional dominance
You must have encountered boys around you who are territorial and possessive.
It’s obvious that he likes girls unilaterally, but girls don’t like him at all, and don’t even have a good impression of him. This boy starts to restrict the girl’s freedom as a “boyfriend”.
When a girl meets other members of the opposite sex, the boy becomes jealous instantly and begins to blame the girl for not being single-minded, messing around with men and women, and even restricting the girl’s freedom.
This is also one of the types of boys that girls dislike most - he has no ability to prove himself, but he has to put his feelings above girls.
Such a boy not only annoys girls, he is also prone to do many extreme things, and even makes girls afraid of making friends with him.
Before a relationship is established, boys begin to use various methods to force away the opposite sex around girls; when they are not even friends, boys begin to show off their affection in the circle of friends, pretending to be pseudo-boyfriends.
A boy who is aggressive, possessive, has low emotional intelligence, but is not liked by girls at all. In fact, you can tell at a glance that "he probably has never been in love."
5. Boys with emotional mysophobia
Boys with emotional mysophobia often have this in common:
"I cannot accept that my partner has had a love experience, or even that my partner has better friends of the opposite sex. I have a serious virginity complex, and at the same time I can't stand the shortcomings of my partner's dissatisfaction, and I always want to find a girlfriend who completely suits my heart."</ p>
In the eyes of such boys, they will regard love as too sacred and pure. Even if the girl they like sits together with another boy, they will have a strong sense of disgust and instantly give up. "The idea of ????actively pursuing".
Such boys are actually patients with a kind of "pseudo-perfectionism". They never want to be the best for themselves, but they want to get the "best" all the time and everywhere. Girls.
In other words, such boys have ridiculously high standards for choosing a mate, but their personal value is far from worthy of their own vision.
They always fantasize about "there will be a future" A perfect goddess takes care of you", but in fact? No one is worthy of such a boy, and such emotional mysophobia is not accepted by girls.
Therefore, that kind of personal value is mediocre, but A boy who has extremely high vision and is very confident that he can get true love. Needless to say, not only has he never been in love, but if he doesn't change his mind, he will never be able to find love in his life.
