If a girl has no interest in you, she will definitely reject you without hesitation when you ask her out. So when you ask out a girl, she doesn’t say anything or refuses, but she may still be so unfaithful to you. Interesting.
At this moment, she chooses silence, which may mean the following three things:
1. Feeling your The invitation is too direct
First of all, we should understand that ordinary girls are reserved in love. Even if they like someone, they will not reveal their emotions easily. So if your invitation is too direct, such as:
Are you free on the weekend? Let’s go to dinner.
What to do on vacation? Let’s go out and play.
I’m not far from where you live. Let’s eat and play together.
Girls are unlikely to agree directly, but because they have a certain liking for you, they will not reject you directly. At this time, they will say they will consider it, but in fact they are accepting it in disguise.
So, you can use words like this before making an invitation:
Boy: Let’s go out for dinner together on the weekend. If you say yes, you agree, and if you say you consider it, you agree.
Girl: Then I won’t say anything?
Boy: That’s tacit consent. See you tomorrow.
Girl: Didn’t you refuse?
Boy: Haha.
2. Consider how to politely refuse you
Some girls are polite tutors and are unwilling to refuse others directly. In fact, it is not difficult to find that these girls are more polite when chatting and will not take the initiative to chat with you, but every time you send her a message, she will still choose to reply. This is a lukewarm attitude.
Generally speaking, girls may not be interested in your chat topics and have not yet established attraction. At this time, you need to talk more about topics that girls are interested in in your daily life to increase the sense of connection.
In fact, as long as the girl doesn’t reject you directly, you still have a chance. You can find opportunities to make some vague invitations, such as:
I passed by a hot pot restaurant yesterday. What do you think is special inside?
Do you know what is the best thing to eat in a Japanese food store? Besides sushi and sashimi
Haidilao has a hidden item, you know Generally speaking, when a girl is curious, she will ask you what it is. At this time, don’t invite directly, but make a vague invitation and tell the girl to go and have a look when you have time. In chatting, using chat topics will naturally lead to dating, which will not make the girl feel that you have a strong purpose. The vague invitation is actually more like a test than a real invitation. If the vague invitation stage is rejected, the attraction needs to be deepened.
3. I want to think about it again
It is difficult for girls to make decisions, especially for someone who has only a slight liking for them. Boys. They will be confused about whether to go or not. What you need is to continue to attract girls and establish a sense of security and comfort in interactive chats.
Goodwill is built up little by little. For such a girl, if you really want her to agree to your invitation, it is difficult to use conventional methods. You can try to invite by creating surprises, for example:
I came back from a business trip, passed by your house, and brought you a small gift. Do you want to go out and meet for dinner?
I went to xx a few days ago. You didn't say you like xxx. I will go to xx after a while. After going downstairs, I gave you a little. I want to have dinner together. Are you free?
The premise of this method is that you must know in advance whether the girl has other things to be busy during this time. If not, of course the best. If so, don't bother the girl. The advantage of using this method to meet girls is that it will not put too much psychological pressure on girls in advance, making it easier to accept.
Another thing to note is that when making an appointment with a girl, never use questions, as this will only give her a reason to reject you. Since you want to ask her out, just state it directly: Where are we going to eat and where will I wait for you, then he will definitely go.
Don’t leave room for her to reject you. If she doesn't want to go, she will just tell you that I have something to do. I don't want to go. Next time or just say I won’t go. When dealing with a girl, you must leave the choice to yourself and don't let her choose, especially when you ask her out.
