When you get along with your girlfriend, small quarrels are inevitable. Some people say that quarrels are not normal. You have not seen those couples who quarrel all day long. There are many who stay together. On the contrary, those couples who do not quarrel often break up. The probability is still very high.
There is truth to this. A quarrel is a quarrel. The key point is to know how to coax. If you don’t know how to coax, your girlfriend will be so angry that she vomits blood. You are still at a loss. You don’t know. Where did he go wrong? Then the two of them broke up unhappy after arguing.
In fact, coaxing a girlfriend is not a difficult task. As long as you provide some snacks, no one can be coaxed. When a girlfriend gets angry, she usually thinks like this: First, you shouldn't make me angry. Second, after getting angry, you should comfort me immediately. Even if it's your girlfriend's fault, you should calm her down first, and then talk about who is right and who is wrong after the anger subsides.
So, how should you comfort your girlfriend after you quarreled with her and made her angry?
1. Angry After that, I went to coax him as soon as possible.
After a girlfriend gets angry, many men like to use cold treatment to solve the problem, because the purpose of doing so is to calm down both parties, and it is better to solve the problem after the mood is stable.
In fact, cold treatment will not change the status quo, but may make the situation develop in a worse direction.
At first, you were too angry to speak, so you responded with silence. If you don't speak, your girlfriend will get more and more angry. If you don't know how to coax her at this time, she will easily fall into random thoughts. Once she thinks too much, she will come up with a lot of questions and eventually make a big fuss. The friendship breaks up and the relationship breaks up.
You think that if you ignore her, she will reflect on herself and examine herself. Big mistake! The longer you ignore her, the bigger your bad feelings will become in her heart.
In fact, women always mean what they say. Sometimes when she is angry, she will say those things that she doesn’t mean. You must not take it seriously. Just admit your mistake to her in time and coax her and everything will be fine.
Therefore, when your girlfriend is angry, you must be quick to ask for forgiveness, your attitude must be sincere, and you must not hesitate at all.
2. After getting angry, remember to kiss, hug and say sweet words.
As long as it is not an issue that touches on principles or bottom lines, and your girlfriend is angry, let her, coax her, let her go, the relationship between the two will definitely be reconciled as before.
In fact, when a woman is angry with her boyfriend, she is not really angry. Sometimes she acts willfully and does not really embarrass him. She does this just to make her boyfriend care about her, love her and cherish her. .
So, when your girlfriend is angry, whether she cries or makes a fuss or ignores you, just go up and hug her. The less sheIf she is asked to hug you, you should use your manly strength to hug her tightly. During this process, she will definitely hit you, bite you, and kick you. If you beat her to death, she will not let go, and you will hug her tighter and tighter. During this period, she will not forget Kiss, if you give her a kiss at this time, most women will not be able to bear it and will be very cooperative to welcome you. Since you have already reached this point, it is not bad to go with the flow and do some "homework".
When you hug your girlfriend tightly and she stops resisting, you whisper an apology and sweet words in her ear. Basically, your girlfriend will slowly forgive you.
Remember, girlfriends are for coaxing. If you can solve problems with sweet words and loving actions, then make good use of them.
3. After getting angry, remember to sugar-coat the bullet.
Where is your sugar-coated bullet when your girlfriend gets angry?
Haha, it’s a bit funny, but it’s the truth. After your girlfriend is angry, if you are indifferent and don't express anything, just wait to break up. No one can help you.
So what are sugar-coated bullets? When spending time with your girlfriend, is she a foodie? Does she like bags? Does she like to travel? Does she have favorite cosmetics that she can’t part with? Buy? I believe that in the normal days when we get along, we have more or less understanding, so after a quarrel, these should come into play.
When your girlfriend gets angry, take her to eat, or make her something delicious to eat.
After your girlfriend gets angry, buy her the cosmetics she has always wanted to buy or the bag she likes.
After my girlfriend got angry, I took her on a casual trip. The world is so big and we need to see it together.
These sugar-coated bullets take turns to make her unhappy.
4. After getting angry, remember to be shameless and coquettish.
Sometimes, what should I do if my girlfriend is still unhappy after coaxing her once? Is there any need to ask? Just coax her a few more times and it will be fine.
Show out the same perseverance and determination that you had when you chased her, and cling to her shamelessly. No matter how much she scolds her, or even makes a move, you will never go away, just stay by her side and try to find a way to make her Be happy, but if you can't, just pretend to be pitiful.
Remember, women are made of water and their hearts are soft. If you act pitifully in front of her, maybe she will forgive you.
Acting coquettishly and cutely is not necessarily reserved for women. Men can also use it, but they must know how to use it.
Women have a maternal mentality. If you act coquettishly and cutely towards her, she will become soft-hearted and think you are cute. Over time, she will lose her temper and stop being angry with you.
