During the ambiguous period, if you don’t confirm the relationship quickly, the ambiguity between you may disappear at any time. Although many boys have reached the ambiguous stage when chatting with girls on WeChat, because they don’t know how to improve the relationship correctly, the relationship between the two stays in the friendship zone and ends in vain.
You must know that in a relationship, most boys are still dominant, so it is still up to you to take the initiative to upgrade the relationship and take the initiative to break up the relationship. Next, I will share with you 3 ways to quickly improve the relationship on WeChat. skills.
1. Make good use of your WeChat Moments
In today's society, Mobile social networking accounts for a large part, and the circle of friends has become a window for people to understand each other.
You can use your circle of friends to find out what kind of person the girl you like is like. You can also make good use of your circle of friends to attract girls. When you want to upgrade your relationship with her, you can release some "begging" through your circle of friends. "Flirting" signal, she took the bait!
Every girl values ????and dislikes different things, but conservatively speaking, girls don’t like boys posting too many selfies in Moments, especially naked ones. With your upper body exposed/tattoos exposed/wearing exaggerated accessories/smoking...
This is the type of selfie that you think looks cool. Believe me, 90% of girls find it silly.
Girls also don’t like boys who often post a lot of emotions. A boy who posts four, five, six or seventy-eight posts a day is like a child who can’t digest his emotions. There is no manliness at all.
After understanding the content in Moments that girls hate and knowing how to avoid lightning, what should you do?
You only need to show your excellent side in Moments and let her know your high value, even Chatting will become much more ambiguous.
2. Chatting on WeChat should be hot
Chatting with girls means Stir up her mood and make her feel that chatting with you is not boring but also exciting.
But some boys will only ask girls in a dull manner: Are you there, what are you doing, have you eaten, and other soulless nonsense chat, and girls can only answer your questions mechanically.
When women chat, most of their words are based on their emotions at the time, which are meaningless, illogical, and divergent.
So don’t worry about whether their words are accurate and logical.
Chatting is about learning to communicate emotions with her, not the actual conversation content.
By chatting like this, the girl’s emotions will be easily affected by you.Drive, wherever you want to take her, she can follow you.
Method:
Capture the girl’s emotion when she replies;
Follow the emotion, capture the keywords, and interact in a natural state.
Note: If you can naturally take up the invitation topic, you can invite it.
But there is no purpose in communicating emotions. It is not necessary to complete the invitation upgrade. At this time, what is important is the atmosphere of the current chat. When two people interact smoothly and have a good impression of each other, dating upgrades are natural.
3. Catch the conversation and make an invitation at the right time
Let’s first look at a failed case:
I wonder if you can see where this chat failed?
The girl wants to eat Korean food. What a rare invitation opportunity this is. Why is the boy so stunned? He hasn't immediately invited her: "I know a Korean restaurant somewhere with good reviews. I'll take you to eat there!"
In this situation, the girl still Is there any reason to refuse?
When it comes to "invitation", boys must find the right time and take action when it's time to take action. When a girl brings up a topic, it just gives you the opportunity to invite you, then you really must seize it!
For example:
The examples mentioned above are just the tip of the iceberg among many techniques for flirting with girls. Of course, people are alive, and invitations are not necessarily limited to one method of fixed words.
In other words, understanding women’s psychology and guiding girls’ emotions is not only a very important skill when making invitations, but also a very important skill in daily communication and chatting, and long-term relationship management!
