When chasing girls, chatting on WeChat is indispensable. However, when many boys chat with girls on WeChat, they either stay silent while chatting, or they don’t know how to start the conversation at all. Below, the editor will share with you a set of tips for finding topics for chasing girls in WeChat chats.
1. Opening
When chatting with girls on WeChat, the opening is very important, and it is decided directly A girl’s first impression of you.
Therefore, a good opening line can make a girl become interested in you instantly.
If you are dating, you can talk about your surroundings.
For example -
The last time I had a drink with a friend in this store, he recommended that I order the "Feeling of First Love". When I tasted it, it turned out to be the taste of soda water. .
Haha, it turns out that the bartender’s first love was a bitter love story.
If you have just added friends or just met, you can start with the circle of friends.
For example, take the zodiac signs, food, pets, travel, entertainment gossip, music, etc. that girls are interested in as the starting point.
For example -
Boy: Looking at the music shared in your circle of friends, do you like Xu Song?
Girl: Yes.
Boy: What a coincidence, I saw one of his concerts before.
Girl: Ah ah, I haven’t seen it yet.
Boy: Let’s go together someday. I’ll help you get tickets.
With all this going on, are you still worried about the awkward conversation?
2. Permitted information< /h2>
Some brothers may say that no matter how good the opening remarks are, you can’t continue the conversation if you don’t understand the girl.
Actually, if you want to know basic information about girls, try these methods!
Control the number of questions
As mentioned earlier, what girls dislike is not being asked question, but keep asking. Therefore, when asking questions, you can add your own thoughts or make a little joke based on the girl's answer.
Expand the topic so that you can talk about it for a long time.
For example——
Boy: Listen to you, you are not a girl from the north, right?
Girl: Haha, yes.
Boy: I have been to several cities in the north. Salt should be free there, right? (Extended topic)
Girl: Hahaha, northern food is relatively strong.
Use declarative sentences to obtain information
For example -
Boys: Little My sister’s avatar looks so small, it’s not like he’s not over 18 yet.
Girl: Haha, I’m already 22.
Boy: It doesn’t look like it, but he is very good at taking care of himself.
Lay the groundwork first, ask questions later
Asking too much basic information will not only expose your sense of need, but also arouse girls’ vigilance.
So before asking questions, you can make a preparation.
For example——
Boy: Seeing as you like hip-hop very much, you should sign up for a class.
Girl: I’m too busy and don’t have time to go.
Boy: What is your job?
Girl: Producer and director.
By asking this way, you will not get bored by girls, but you can also get the information you want.
3. Establish a sense of connection
When establishing a sense of connection, many brothers tend to make mistakes-- Talk to girls about the future, three views, beliefs, etc.
In fact, girls don’t like abstract topics. They prefer to listen to intuitive stories, and then they will make a judgment about you. The more things you have in common, the deeper your connection will be.
What to do?
Talk about shared experiences
People are nostalgic, so talking about childhood is a good choice. But it is best to talk about childhood in interesting, funny, negative and sad ways. It is best not to talk about it at this stage. Of course, in addition to childhood, you can also talk about high school and college.
Here are some specific words to recommend to you -
When I was a child, I really wanted to be a canteen owner, haha, what did you want to be when you were a child?
Before I I really want to go to Beijing and Shanghai to develop, but now I think Chengdu is also good. Which city do you like to live in?
Do you have any interesting childhood memories? I remember that time...
The purpose of saying this is to guide girls, which will not only bring you closer to each other, but also highlight your humor.
Praising girls
In the process of pursuing girls, praise is definitely indispensable. But the mistake many brothers habitually make is to praise girls to the sky from the beginning.
In fact, such compliments not only make you appear hypocritical, but also make it easier for you to fall into a girl’s frame. So how should we praise it? Due to space issues, I will not describe them one by one here.
Mobilizing girls’ emotions
Of course, establishing a sense of connection is not enough. The important thing is that you must learn to mobilize girls’ emotions. Because most girls are very emotional, what they care about is the emotional value you bring to her, not the content of the chat.
Therefore, you do not need to know astronomy or geography. What you have to do is to make her interested. The simplestThe best method is to set up suspense and arouse girls' curiosity.
For example——
Boy: Congratulations. (Set up suspense)
Girl: Congratulations to me? (Curious)
Boy: That’s right.
Boys: Congratulations on winning the Best Photogenic Award.
Girl: Haha, I accept it calmly.
Boys: Sure enough, beautiful women are very "modest".
