There is a Murphy's law in love: when you suspect that your girlfriend doesn't love you, your girlfriend no longer loves you.
Although your girlfriend has not said it personally, you can clearly feel that her girlfriend has changed a lot. If your girlfriend behaves in the following ways towards you, it is likely that she does not love you. Don't delay!
Don't delay, this kind of self-deceiving love will come to its end sooner or later.
1. No longer willing to have physical contact
When a person begins to change his mind, the body comes first One who reacts. Men can hug, kiss or even have more intimate contact with women they don't love, but women can't. Most women have sex because of love, which means they will only have intimate contact with the people they like. When a woman likes you, she wants to be with you all the time. She wants to hug you and kiss you when she sees you. She wants to hold your hand wherever she goes, because at this time, you are full of love in her eyes. Masculine. And when she doesn't love you, your masculine charm will be instantly lost in her eyes, and she will have no interest in your body at all. She will even think that your touching her body is an offense and subconsciously avoid it. You reject you. Your mouth may lie, but your body's reactions are the most honest.
2. Sudden love of beauty or sudden randomness
It is absolutely true that women want to please their appearance. If your girlfriend is used to being casual in front of you, but suddenly starts to love beauty, and always deliberately dresses herself up to look good, and this is even when you are not around, then you need to pay attention, she may have When you set a new goal, because you want to attract the other person's attention, you will pay extra attention to your appearance. If your girlfriend usually dresses up carefully, but when she meets you, she is very casual, doesn't wash her hair, doesn't match her clothes, and doesn't even want to put on light makeup, then it means that she has already recognized you and completely ignored you. Being her own person either means that she doesn't care what you think of her, and you are no longer someone she is willing to dress up to meet.
3. No more desire to share with you
Girls become special when they like someone. Long story short, when I see a puppy on the roadside, I want to take a photo to show you. When I see a strange cloud in the sky, I want to share it with you. When I take a bite of delicious cake, I want to tell you in a hurry. For girls, liking means having a strong desire to share. When she is no longer willing to share fragments of her life with you, it probably means she no longer loves you. I once saw a comment on NetEase Cloud that said: I saw a very strange flower today, but I didn’t even think about taking a picture of it and sending it to you. At this time, I suddenly realized that I no longer love you. .
4. I no longer care about anything about you
A buddy told me that he wanted to congratulate meWhen the girl Huan was having dinner, he kept looking for topics to talk about from beginning to end, while the girl just nodded or responded casually, not even hearing what he was saying. He said that he suddenly remembered that other girls liked him in the past and pestered him with questions every day. When he posted on Moments, the other girl would guess his mood for a long time, and then cautiously come over to ask him what happened. You see, this is how a girl likes someone. She will want to walk into the other person's life, want to know what the other person is doing at all times and how she is feeling. She no longer loves you, even if you talk endlessly in front of her. She can't even listen to a few words about her own life, because she doesn't want to participate in your life and has no interest in you.
5. Stop being clingy and become very sensible
Many boys will feel this way. Why is it that when I first got together with my girlfriend, I thought she was good at everything, independent enough, sensible enough, never lost my temper over trivial things, and never made trouble unreasonably, but after being together for a while, she seemed to be a different person. , possessive and controlling. I wish I knew what I was doing every second. I have to respond to messages instantly, report when I go out, and get angry if I don’t do even the smallest thing. It’s simply unreasonable. In fact, most boys don't know that girls really love you at this time. The more they like you, the easier it is to rely on you and the easier it is to have expectations for you. When these expectations fail, they will be disappointed. , will get angry, and it will become unreasonable in the eyes of boys. When your girlfriend can live a good life alone, no longer wants to know what you are doing all the time, no longer looks forward to meeting you, and won’t have too many emotional fluctuations because of you, then congratulations You, she doesn't love you that much anymore.
6. I don’t care whether you love her or not
The most favorite question that girls ask when they like someone: Do you love me? The most favorite question that girls ask when they are quarreling and angry: You Do you not love me anymore? Most girls are very insecure creatures. Even if you are still fine, they can't help but always confirm the boy's love for them, because at that time, they are in love with you. When your girlfriend stops chasing you to ask if you love her, it's not that she feels safe, but that she really doesn't care anymore. After all, who cares if someone you don't love loves you anymore? In fact, you know better than anyone else whether she still loves you or not. No matter how much suspicion you have, it is better to express it clearly. Cherish it when you love it. Let it go freely when you don't love it, with a clear conscience and no regrets. It is already the best explanation for a relationship.
