What strategies would you use to chase a girl you like? Keep working hard to make money to buy a house? Give a gift to show your sincerity? Are you afraid that a girl won't like you if you respond to her requests? I feel tired just thinking about it. It would be better not to have such a relationship at all. So how do you chase girls without becoming a bitch?
1. Don’t use mechanical methods to chase girls
People have a strong ability to imitate. Love dramas in TV series, movies, and animations are basically inseparable from these plots:
There are weak people who continue to grow in frustration, and do a lot of things to finally move the girls and get together;
< p> There is a magic soldier who falls from the sky and is slowly led by an innocent girl. In the end, the magic soldier stays in the world for love;There is even a plot like Cinderella, but the boy is not a prince, but a prince. The owner of a certain company is a rich and wealthy young man. Girls don't rely on glass slippers. They may be shoe shiners, janitors, secretaries, assistants, or just newly hired.
Are there any problems with these methods of chasing girls? No problem, because the plot needs such a contrast to be interesting. If two people have ordinary families, ordinary lives, and ordinary attractions, and come and go to eat, sleep, and go to the cinema, isn't this the life of us ordinary people? There is no contrasting plot at all, what’s there to watch?
There are differences in the thinking of men and women. Boys think rationally, while girls think emotionally. This kind of thinking is interesting when applied to romantic dramas.
Boys will see that a strong man has to give up his identity, keep being nice to a girl, and be gentle and keep giving to her, so that they can be together. Weak people can make money by constantly moving bricks, and girls can be with themselves. Most boys are self-aware and must know that they are not strong. So I chose to keep making mistakes and be nice to girls. I had to give up my status as a strong person and have a gentle temper. Keep giving, but you can’t say a few words when you’re angry?
The plot that girls see is that no matter what happens to them, a handsome, rich and chatty Prince Charming will find them, and they will always be gentle to them and support them unconditionally. Anyway, even if you are just waiting for death, a strong person will take you to heaven. If you don't meet him, it means you don't have the fate to continue waiting. If most girls hadn't read books and were taught how to fall in love by their families, they would have been fooled by TV dramas.
Therefore, don’t use mechanical methods to chase girls. Only the method that suits you is correct.
2. How to chase girls without becoming a bitch
Is it necessary to pay for chasing girls and boys? Of course. There are two types of giving, namely "providers" and attractors.
1. The provider of love
The logic of the identity of the provider is very simple. It tries to determine the identity of the provider through its own conditions. Chasing her, such as constantly paying for girls and giving gifts,He is obedient, afraid of failure when speaking and only dares to please and ask questions. All you can do is talk and have no emotion? If you think about it, you will know that this kind of relationship will be very boring together. It does not feel like love, but more like a transaction.
The first time I chased a girl, the girl didn’t bring an umbrella during a huge typhoon. In order to highlight my gentleness and considerateness, I chose to go to her downstairs to give her an umbrella. After waiting for a long time, I didn’t see her until I asked her. , she felt that it was cold outside and the quilt was comfortable, so she asked me to go back by myself. Usually what comes out of mindless dedication and mindless persistence is not love, but the sentence: It is more suitable for us to be friends.
2. Attractor
The attractor identity is more of an emotional provider. He can bring emotional value to girls, make them happy, and create a little romance, which is full of surprises. You can read as many jokes as you want, whether they are scary, humorous, heavy, or sublime. The focus is on feeling emotions and releasing them.
If you, your friend, the girl you like, and her bestie are drinking together, how do you need your friends to help you? Help you stop drinking? Help you pull away girls? How would you arrange it?
If I were your teammate, I would choose to team up with you in the first half, and she will team up with her best friend. Let’s get familiar with the game. Otherwise, the purpose is so strong, and everyone has no gaming experience and just plays a ball. . In the second half, I will find a reason to be a team with you and the girl you like, and I will be a team with my best friend. I will definitely encourage you two to drink. In the end, the encouragement is enough, and I will let you have a drink and continue to escalate.
In a bar, it must be fun and exciting. As for how I can help you in life, I will let you praise you while grilling, and when you two are chatting, I will silently be the man behind you. You grill.
The more obvious difference is: the provider of love is facing a very good boy, and the girl has to see if he is really that good. She has to spend two months together to test it out first. As for the attractor, the girl will find this boy very attractive, and she will want him immediately!
Comparing the two, who do you think girls will choose? Of course, you are an attractor. You just need to feel that you are there. His attention is on you every day. It would be strange not to be fascinated by you.
