Many boys will ask out their favorite girls on this day. If a girl is willing to date you, then there is definitely the possibility of taking the relationship further. However, if you do not pay attention to these taboos, it is likely to ruin the date. , and may even alienate your relationship.
1. Don’t be late
This is the most important thing. If you are late for a date, your first impression in her mind will have been lost by half. Unfortunately, you may be late. Don't be too troublesome. Be sure to contact the other party in advance. Even at delicate moments when you might be late, for the sake of safety, always contact the other party first. Such behavior will definitely give you extra points.
2. Don’t be indecisive
First, compare the following two openings: Let’s have a cup of coffee together another day? The other one: Well, what do you think about having a cup of coffee together another day? Let’s eat together. Okay, maybe you're watching a movie? First of all, the first kind of opening line is very good. You are making the invitation in a very decisive way, showing your confidence. At the same time, the only question she has to consider is, do I want to go to the appointment? But in the second method, she not only has to consider whether to accept it, but also the place and method of meeting. Not only does it increase her stress, it also makes you look indecisive.
3. Don’t talk about your ex
< p> This is very necessary to say again. Don’t talk about your ex, no matter how romantic your past was or how good your ex was. On the first date, unless the girl takes the initiative to talk about past events, don't mention them. Let bygones be bygones, don't let the girl think you are a fussy, jealous man. No girl likes the person she meets talking about her ex all the time. Even subconsciously comparing her to her ex.4. Don’t peek at other girls
If you peek at other girls on a date, and the girl you are dating finds out, your position in his mind will definitely drop by one. steps, so you must take care of your eyes and focus on the face of the girl opposite you
Of course, you can also praise her appropriately on the menu and on the waiter. Whether you praise her outfit, clothes and shoes, or even small jewelry, it can produce unexpected results.
5. Don’t play with mobile phones often
In today’s modern society, a disease has emerged: mobile phone syndrome. Keep your phone with you, and I want to remind everyone to say good night to her from the moment you pick her up until you send her home. During this period, you can mute your cell phone and put it in your pocket. This is the minimum respect and courtesy for others. Even if you can't talk to her, she will be fond of your demeanor and politeness, and then introduce her sisters to you.
6. Don’t try to pleaseGirls
When most men meet a woman they like, they always blindly agree and echo the woman’s opinions.
They think they can win a woman’s heart this way. They believe that simply agreeing with her will make a woman feel comfortable and happy. You always obey her, but men who obey them without any reason are very unassertive. Most girls like men who are responsible and assertive.
7. Don’t rush to confirm your relationship
Sometimes, you may feel good about each other, but it may be because the contact is not deep enough, and the other person feels that they have not understood you yet. You But being eager to confirm a certain relationship will put a lot of pressure on the girl and make her stay away from you. Therefore, don't put too much pressure on the other party when dating. Like boys, women also have a desire to conquer. They will give you various hints. If you cannot resist the temptation and propose a confirmed relationship, then they will think that you are too easy to succeed and have no interest in challenging.
Using this day to date girls is an excellent opportunity to enhance each other’s feelings. During this process, fully consider the girls’ concerns and use these precautions to understand when to do and what not to do. Do.