In the popular "Thirty Only" some time ago, Lin Youyou's character made the term "green tea bitch" popular again. So what does green tea bitch mean, and how to identify green tea bitch?
1. The meaning of green tea bitch
"Green tea bitch" originally started on the Internet in 2013 A popular term refers to some women who appear pure and refined, harmless to humans and animals, but behind the scenes are good at scheming and playing with emotions. Not only girls are afraid of these "green tea bitches", but boys are also afraid of them. Girls are afraid that she will seduce their significant other, while boys are afraid that they will waste money and effort on her and be teased. So how to identify a green tea bitch?
2. How to identify a green tea bitch
1. Don’t pay attention to the relationship between the two parties
For those who don’t pay attention to the relationship between the two parties , the importance of many things will come before your relationship. In other words, you are not that important to her, even just a lonely job, a cash withdrawal machine, etc.
So, when a "green tea bitch" needs to make a choice between you and those things, she will not hesitate to put you at the bottom. Just like, we throw away an unimportant thing without cherishing it at all.
Another reason is that when we tacitly treat the relationship as she wants, the cost to her is almost zero. In this case, the other party has no sunk costs at all. The less you pay, the less you value it.
Therefore, those who we have no principles to pursue and accept our good people for nothing, no matter how good we are, they will find it easy to get us. In this case, she would find it reasonable to play with us.
2. Blindly pursue excitement
In fact, who doesn’t like novelty? When we are young, we Everyone wants to look around and choose the one that suits them best.
Some people stop when they find it, but some people are merciful and want to give everyone a home.
We often see news like this:
The husband is capable, earns a lot of money outside the home, lives a prosperous life, has two children, and has a happy and harmonious family, but the wife thinks such a life is boring. , so the pursuit of excitement went off the rails.
The behavior is very confusing, and outsiders cannot even understand why they make such a choice. It seems too serious to say that they are restless at heart, but this kind of people really like excitement, and they pursue excitement blindly. They don't think they should settle down with anyone, they only focus on whether their current experience is pleasant and exciting enough.
Therefore, they lack a sense of responsibility and have always been on the road of scum and scum.
3. Brainless greed
Greed, thisGood to understand. Faced with the temptation that is easily available, from a human nature, of course you want to have it, it is human nature. Human nature is greedy, but the price of playing with emotions is not small.
Not only the relationship itself, but once discovered by the other party, the two people’s understanding of their partner, their trust in each other, and even their new relationship in the future will be a huge torture.
Being brainless means only seeing possessions and not losing. Some people even think that you can have two good things at the same time. Today I have this handsome boy, tomorrow I will try that tall, rich and handsome man, and the day after tomorrow I have to think about how to get that wealthy uncle.
"Green tea bitches" never feel that what they have is the best, and they are always looking at what they don't get. They will not be satisfied with you, nor will they be satisfied with anyone else. In short, the expansion of unlimited desires is the driving force for becoming a scumbag.
Therefore, it is very important to choose a partner. We must choose those who regard love as a long-term development and avoid unnecessary waste of emotions.
