Chasing girls is a college question. You need to be particular about chatting, dressing up, giving gifts, dating, and everything you do. Girls are very fickle, because the tests on you are also diverse. If you don't do one thing well, you will be out. Let’s talk about chasing girls and giving them gifts and see what boys should do.
1. Should I give a gift?
Generally speaking, this matter There are two opinions, one is that it must be given away, and the other is that it must not be given away.
First of all, you can give gifts. This view mostly occurs among novices. This kind of people believe that girls are born to be pampered. Since you like this girl, you should express your sincerity by giving gifts. This will deepen the girls' favorability towards them, and ultimately prompt the girls to agree to be with them. After receiving the gift, if the girls still don't agree, it means that their gift has not passed the test and will only be given to them next time. Be more careful when handing out gifts. As long as you persevere and keep giving them hard, girls will one day become their girlfriends.
The second type is that you can’t. People who think they can’t give gifts mostly happen after they have learned something. They think that giving gifts is of no use. Giving gifts to girls in the process of chasing will expose themselves in advance. A sense of need, which will lead to a decrease in girls' interest in them. In the long run, it will also lead to an imbalance of investment between themselves and girls. It will make girls develop the bad habit of stretching out their hands for clothes and opening their mouths for food, which ultimately forms our They are familiar with kneeling and licking, so in the eyes of these people, they not only insist on not giving gifts to girls, but also advocate guiding girls to invest and give them gifts by attracting them.
2. In what time period should gifts be given?
These two groups of people are opposed to each other in terms of opinions. They all firmly disagree with each other, so everyone might as well be quiet here. Let us first look at an example: A few days ago, a friend asked me that the girl I liked said in the circle of friends that she wanted a red iPhone7. Do you think if I buy it for her, she will agree to be with me?
I said No, if you think so, it is too easy to chase girls, but he said, this is not Is it good? If I do this, the girl will definitely be very moved. If she is moved, at least her attitude towards me will be very different from before, which will be beneficial to our future pursuits. I told him that your idea is wrong, and if it is true as you said, as long as a girl likes something, you can just buy it and give it to her. This will help you pursue success, and others can easily pursue it. What about her? After some time, he asked my sister if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomorrow. What should I do?
I said to remember to clean up after myself on the date, and prepare a gift. ,IWe wanted to give it to a girl, but he said you forgot, didn’t you say you couldn’t give it before? I said, brother, you were wrong again. Now we not only have to give it, but we also want to make the girl feel that we are very attentive. Now here comes the problem. During the pursuit, when he wanted to give a gift to a girl for the first time, his approach only made our pursuit feel moved. Being moved has a certain effect, but this effect is like eating. The effectiveness of the medicine remains the same and will gradually decline over time.
If you want to please a woman with emotion, due to the constraints of the drug's effect, you have to keep giving her gifts one by one. Moreover, in order to maintain the effect, the gifts you give Each gift must be more valuable and more thoughtful than the last. Otherwise, in the words of girls, it means you don’t love me anymore. Therefore, this kind of gift is like a huge bottomless pit, unless you have a golden mountain. Silver Mountain, otherwise you really can’t fill it.
Next, let’s take a look at the situation of giving gifts to girls for the second time. The reason why we chose this time is because of the timing. The reason is that I chose not to give it away before because the time was not mature enough, but now it is different, because all kinds of signs indicate that girls have become interested in us at this time, so our sense of need can be slightly exposed at this time. Otherwise, we ignore the availability of love.
In other words, girls will feel that I am interested in this boy, but he has not expressed any intention of further contact with me, so he will keep talking all day long. As time goes by, girls will become interested in us. There is very little interest. In addition, when we choose to give gifts to girls at this time, it will also take us to a higher level of attraction to girls and distinguish us from other ambiguous people.
Conclusion: Of course you still need to give gifts when chasing girls, but you have to pay attention to the timing. Many boys are in a hurry to give gifts to girls, but in the end they fail to catch her and spend their money in vain, which makes them feel very unhappy. Gifts can express your feelings and increase your goodwill, but only if the girl is already attracted to you. Remember, the purpose of gift-giving is to add icing on the cake, not to provide help in times of need.
