Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, we tend to have three elements: tigers. In the process of chasing girls, it is great to have such perseverance and determination. After all, no one wants to be the big YYDS brother, but we can’t chase girls all at once. After all, because if a girl really doesn’t like you, it’s useless no matter how you pursue her. Sometimes giving up at the right time is also a relief.
At what point should you give up chasing a girl?
It is said that if you use the wrong method, your efforts will be in vain. If you encounter problems early, you can find them early, solve them early, and correct them early, so that you can enter the state of love earlier. So if you often encounter these situations when chasing girls, be careful and you may panic.
First, chatting with girls is very difficult
If you chat with girls basically They are all awkward conversations, and it is difficult for you to continue on every topic. She will always use the gentlest words to make you unable to refute, and then, she starts to enter the busy mode. Oops, sorry, no just now Pick up the phone. I've been very busy recently and have to get off work. Even when I go home to chat with her at night, she will end the chat with you by saying, "I'm going to put on a facial mask first." Many big brothers just don’t understand. Can’t you reply to messages while wearing a facial mask? Yes, but she doesn't want to, so chatting is not a matter of one person, but depends on the girl's attitude towards you.
Second, girls will never take advantage
If a girl usually dates you, whether it is a team dinner or Normally when making a dinner date, as long as you pay for it, she will silently record the approximate expenses, and then transfer it to Alipay for you when you get back. You are still thinking about inviting a girl to dinner this time, and ask her to treat you to milk tea next time. , inviting each other to come and go, not only will the time spent together increase, but if the development goes smoothly, you can also rely on the upper direction. Hey, who knows that they will not give you this opportunity at all, and will settle the accounts every time Clearly, I will never take advantage of you. At this time, stop comforting yourself. It’s not that the girl is embarrassed or feels sorry for your money. She just has no idea about you. A person who really likes you. Your girl's little thoughts will be exactly the same as when you liked her. She is even more looking forward to the kind of interaction than you are. Girls who don't like you will kill this interaction in advance. ,so. When chasing girls, if this happens, you may have to give up.
Third, the girl refuses to be alone with you
If you chase this girl, you can chat and reply It's also very welcoming, and you can treat me to a meal, but the prerequisite is that you have to bring a friend with you, otherwise you won't come out even if you beat me to death. Moreover, when you ask her to have dinner, you usually agree to it reluctantly after you have made many appointments and you really can't refuse. You know, refusing to be alone together is actually to put it bluntly, it means that I don’t want to have feelings for you at the moment.Emotional development, in the final analysis, is that you are not strong enough. So if this happens to a girl, if you don't change your approach and just blindly invite her, then you have to give up chasing girls.
