Blind date is a way to quickly find a girlfriend, but now many young people are very averse to blind date. So besides blind dates, what other ways are there to find a girlfriend now?
1. Social software
The positioning of most social software is very clear, that is, to help single people solve their partner problems. At the same time, these softwares also have something in common: viewing photos and introducing interests and hobbies.
Therefore, many boys fail in the first step. Because the photos are not good-looking, they are mercilessly taken away by girls. So if you want girls to notice you, first you have to make sure your photos are exquisite.
In the photo, it is necessary to show a clean environment, beautiful personal combination, as well as photo composition, atmosphere, etc., and to highlight the texture. Doesn’t this make the photo look more sophisticated all of a sudden?
If you do this, you will defeat a large number of people.
Secondly, the column about hobbies and interests must not be left empty. Even a simple zodiac sign or hobbies may attract girls to offer you an olive branch.
After all, what can we learn about you by just looking at photos? Not filling in any information may make girls feel distant.
Of course, there will be unreliable people on any social software, and boys should also pay attention to guard against them.
For example, if you encounter a girl asking you for a red envelope, or if it involves money issues, you must stay away as soon as possible.
2. Friendship resources and mutual assistance
I saw an interesting post today.
Several boys gathered together and lamented that they wanted to fall in love but could not meet a suitable girl. At this time, one of the people called on everyone to open and share the friend circles of opposite-sex friends on WeChat. As a result, several people found girls who seemed more interested.
By the way, now do you still say that running a circle of friends is useless?
What if one day the girls get together to look at your circle of friends and find that there is nothing? , or there is nothing interesting, wouldn’t you just miss a great opportunity?
In addition to the circle of friends, we can also broaden the channels for meeting the opposite sex by participating in some activities where girls are more popular.
For example, attend more friends’ gatherings and go to places with many people such as bars, concerts, and music festivals.
Only by showing up more can you know whether a girl likes you, and you can truly understand what kind of girl you like.
Compared with online chatting, standing directly in front of them and chatting face to face is the most real and intuitive understanding.
Speaking of this, I thought about blind dates again. I know that young brothers will have a headache when they hear these two words. What age are you in? Normal peopleWho still goes on a blind date?
But in the final analysis, a blind date is just a way of getting to know each other, isn't it? If you go to meet me, you won't lose any money, so it's just like getting to know a friend. Even if it’s not suitable, at least we know in our hearts what kind of person we won’t consider, right? Maybe we’ll meet Miss.
Right?
3. Team activities
I’m afraid it’s not much just relying on the introduction of friends around you. resource. Participating in activities is a good way to have fun and meet new friends. Isn’t it the best of both worlds? Where can I find such activities?
There are many public accounts that specialize in activities. On weekends or Various activities are held during holidays.
The destinations are as close as this city and as far away as all over the country. You can run at night, watch the sea, hike, and have a bonfire party.
It’s great to think about it. I wish I could rush to a mountain top or the beach right now, barbecue and sing with a group of strangers, meet a girl I can chat with, and be with her Sitting in the afterglow of the setting sun, talking about ideals, poetry and the distance.
4. Hobby classes
If you can find someone who resonates with your soul because of your hobbies, that would be great . For example, if you both like fitness, swimming, and painting, then you don't have to worry about having common topics.
As I said, fitness, swimming, and painting are all sports that girls like more, so they will have more opportunities to meet girls.
So what should you do after you meet someone?
The trick to strike up a conversation is to find an entry point and find the connection between you. It is best to compliment the other person inadvertently:
"The color combinations in your paintings are so bold and eye-catching. How long have you been learning to paint?"
"I have seen you in this gym several times, and you have also Do you live nearby?”
Of course, it doesn’t mean that you have to choose a field that girls like to develop. The most important thing is to like it from the bottom of your heart. After all, the fundamental reason for us to develop hobbies is to let Make yourself happy and enhance your personal charm.
What girls really like are attractive boys, not because she likes you because you like drawing, and she doesn’t like you because you like swimming.