The phrase "drink more hot water" is enough for many girls to label you as a straight man. In addition to drinking more hot water, do you know what other straight man behaviors are more annoying to girls? ? Here are a few:
1. Don’t know how to communicate
If you want to experience the happiness of two people being together, communication is an essential component. Without communication, there is no way for you to understand each other and form a tacit understanding.
Then the problems that arise are: (1) You and she say different things and do different things, and you still pretend to be the same person when you are clearly not on the same channel. How tired is it? (2) You have something on your mind but can't express it, and you don't understand what she has on her mind. You keep all your grievances in your heart until the moment it finally breaks out, pushing the matter into an irreversible situation.
2. Forced chatting
"The weather is really nice today."
"Yeah, there are dark clouds all over the place."
"Your dinner looks delicious."
"Yeah, pickled mustard with rice porridge."
Some people are afraid that they will have nothing to talk about when getting along with girls, and they will be labeled as boring by girls. Especially boys who are not good-looking enough and whose wallets are not fat enough, are afraid that if they are labeled as "boring" again, then there will be nothing left to catch her eyes. So they will forcefully start a conversation even though they have nothing to say.
If you really don’t know how to speak and can’t find a topic, the result of this will be to ramble on here and there and send some expressions that you think are interesting, with no logic between each sentence and no topic. The content is uninteresting, and the girls listening will be anxious for you. Isn’t this just awkward chatting!
Forcing awkward chatting is not a good thing. If you have nothing to say, girls will give you a 0. , then you will get negative points if you force an awkward conversation.
3. Only consider satisfying your own feelings
If he wants to date a girl, he must find ways to Date her on a date without thinking about why the girl would date him.
If he wants to chat with a certain girl, he must chat until he is satisfied, regardless of whether the girl wants to continue chatting.
If he likes a girl, he will definitely pursue her, regardless of whether the girl will like him.
Such boys often feel that the world revolves around them. For example, as long as he likes a girl, he feels that the girl will also like him. Even if he is slapped with his hands and feet, he feels that the girl is saying no. , I was thinking a lot.
In the eyes of girls, without exception, such boys are stalkers, annoying men, or even weird perverts.
When you do this, have you ever considered why girls want to cater to you?What does she need to match your actions? What can she get? Is she interested in it and has she considered it?
For example, when you invite a girl, many thoughts will flash through her mind. For example, why did I come out, what did I come out for, etc., did I gain or lose by coming out? However, although the girl thinks a lot, she does not want to get a specific answer, she just wants a step up, a reason that can convince herself that it is worth doing this.
If you want a girl to accept you more easily, you must learn to make excuses for her so that she has enough reasons to convince herself to do so.
4. Reason with girls
"You think what I said is wrong? Okay, okay, today I Let me tell you clearly, this is what happened, blah blah blah (3,000 words are omitted below). "
It is absolutely impossible for some boys to show weakness to others. , even if you are the person I like. In order to create their own tall image, they especially like to suppress girls. After a girl disagrees with them, they like to present facts and reason, trying to convince her to realize her mistakes.
In fact, girls are not interested in studying who is right or wrong between you and her. They will only see that you are full of self-righteousness and self-satisfaction. Anyway, she doesn't owe you anything. If you suppress her, the worst she can do is stay away from you.
