Although many boys have the contact information of the girl they like, and the chat atmosphere is good, the relationship still remains at the stage of friends, and there is even a slight tendency to develop in the direction of male best friends. How can they pursue each other like this? Below, Teach you 3 tips on how to quickly get closer to a girl.
1. Manufacturing connection
You can give girls an item that can be used frequently , but don’t make it too expensive, otherwise she will be embarrassed to accept it, and may even be wary of you. What did you want to spend so much money on in the first place? The motivation is definitely not simple.
Our purpose is to make this item a link for the two of you to develop better.
It is very suitable to send more meat. Girls all like this cute plant, and they have a long growing season and are relatively easy to care for. During the time when the little succulents are growing, you can have many topics to discuss. For example:
Female: Why do you think of giving me more meat?
Male: I just think it’s good So cute, so much like you.
Female: Really? Thank you.
Male: Give it a name.
Female: Well, let’s call her Little XX.
Male: Okay, remember to take a photo and show it to me.
Female: Great. Do you know what you need to pay attention to when raising succulents?
Male: I don’t know much about this. I’ll look it up online and tell you how to raise it.
Using this topic, you can often chat with her on WeChat.
Because you and a girl are doing the same thing and have a common goal, emotional changes will occur. One day the girl may transfer this relationship to you.
2. Create excitement
I don’t know if you have heard of the suspension bridge effect.
Psychologists once conducted an experiment in which two boys walked across two bridges respectively. There is a rushing river under a suspension bridge. The bridge will continue to sway as people step on it. The guardrails on both sides are also made of ropes.
The other bridge is a very ordinary bridge. There is a beautiful woman standing on the opposite side of the two bridges. If you want to be friends with the girls after crossing the bridge, you can leave each other's phone numbers.
The result of the experiment was that the boys who walked across the dangerous suspension bridge developed a liking for the girls on the other side of the bridge. Do you know why?
When a person is nervously crossing a suspension bridge, his heartbeat will speed up involuntarily. After experiencing such a dangerous moment, when he sees the beautiful woman in front of him, he will turn his attention to the girlbody, and the feeling of accelerated heartbeat will also be understood as the physiological reaction of the other person making your heart beat, so you will develop love feelings for the other person. To put it simply, doing exciting things together makes it easier to feel in love.
So if you and a girl like each other, taking her to play exciting games will have a twice the result with half the effort in promoting your relationship. So it is not difficult to understand why some people like to take their significant other to watch horror movies and ride roller coasters when they are in love, right?
Projects like horror movies, haunted houses, and roller coasters are neither It's too scary, and it will create enough excitement for a period of time, so that the adrenaline in the human body will be greatly increased, the heartbeats of the two people will accelerate, and the distance will become closer.
3. Create sunk costs
The time and money spent in relationships. In fact, they can all be called sunk costs. People who are in love are still entangled with each other after breaking up. In fact, they just feel that they have given so much and are reluctant to give up.
In the process of pursuing girls, boys should not just pay for themselves, but also know how to let girls take the initiative to pay for themselves. The more she gives, the more she can't live without you.
So how can you get a girl to give to you?
For example:
"There seems to be a good movie recently, it is a literary film that you like, you Do you want to invite me to watch it together?"
"I've been very busy lately, and I'm in a very low mood. I need your comfort."
"You've been too busy lately, too. I haven’t seen you for two weeks, so you have to treat me to dinner.”
Of course, the basis of all this is that your relationship is already familiar, and the premise is that she has felt your dedication, otherwise. The girl will think you are here to take advantage of her.
Don’t worry about why you should pay first. As a man, it’s okay for us to take the initiative. After all, most girls are still relatively shy.
Actually, it doesn’t matter who takes the initiative first. If a girl also likes you and is willing to pay for you, then everything you do will be worth it.
As she contacts you more and more and does more things for you, girls will become more and more dependent on the feeling of being with you, and your relationship will rise to a higher level. .
People often say that relationships need to be managed. It is true. In love, you also need to use some "carefulness" occasionally to create passion and fun. If you just let nature take its course, many wonderful feelings will also come. It won't happen.
