Eating and drinking refers to a situation where a girl agrees to meet you, but after you finish eating and drinking, she leaves immediately. This situation most commonly occurs in blind dates. So how to prevent girls from eating and drinking?
1. Identify professional eating and drinking in advance
From the circle of friends It can be judged
Some girls’ professional purpose of eating and drinking is very obvious. You can find out if you pay a little attention. For example, her circle of friends is particularly fresh and refined.
In order to attract boys to pay for her, a professional food and drink lover will try her best to show her own value. It is difficult to find a more life-like photo in her circle of friends. When you meet these girls, don’t think how classy they are in life. In fact, these are all deliberately created to provide more professional love knowledge. If you have any questions about emotions, you can add WeChat xyxz033 and chat privately at any time and I will help you answer them. At the same time, You can also receive a free chat course. .
Some girls will post afternoon tea, exquisite delicacies, etc. in their circle of friends. If she has a lot of pictures of delicacies, it does not mean that she is a foodie. The difference between eating, drinking, and foodies is that the purpose of eating, drinking, and posing for delicious food is to create a high-value display, while the purpose of foodies is to share delicious food and will not deliberately pose for photos.
This type of girls also has a common characteristic
The photos they post are rarely selfies, most of them are Others helped take the photos, and they would also claim to be single. Don't think that she took the photo with her best friend, because most girls take pictures together, and when posting to friends, they don't just post about themselves and not their best friends.
It can be judged from the chat
A girl who is sincerely dating you will definitely want to understand your situation, whether she is satisfied with you or not. Chiheshen will not take the time to get to know you, because her purpose is to freeload. And she rarely puts the topic or focus on you. Instead, she asks you how you usually play and what you like to eat. She always cares about the topic of eating and drinking.
If you are not careful when chatting, you may be brought to the topic of food, making you mistakenly think that she is a foodie. When you make an invitation, she will happily go to dinner with you.
If the above two points are all met, it means that most girls are eaters and drinkers. You must be careful when dating them.
2. What should I do if I didn’t recognize it in advance?
Before meeting, decide the date place by yourself. , exclude girls who have the purpose of eating and drinking. Because this type of girl will choose where to eat and drink by herself, without considering how much money you need to spend.
When you meet, let her order first to see if she specializes in ordering expensive or flashy things. If so, tell her you can’t eat this dish and change it to another one., or tell her that my ex-girlfriend loves this dish, let’s change it.
3. What should you do if you have a last-minute meal or drink?
If a girl has a last-minute idea, it means that she has little interest in dating, or you have not attracted her, so she doesn’t want to eat. If you don’t eat it for free, it will come out anyway. When we meet this kind of girl, we should reflect on what we did wrong and stop thinking about how to deal with her. Especially in the subsequent interactions, if she keeps being cold to you, it means that she is not interested in you, so don't force her to date you again.
Blind date is not an opportunity for boys to be taken advantage of and girls to eat and drink for free, but a process of getting to know each other and examining each other. If the girl's purpose is not pure from the beginning, then there is no need for you to meet. If a girl is not very interested in you, the most important thing is to find ways to cultivate her affection and interest in you.
