This is an era that is different from the past. If boys today want to pursue girls, they not only need to compare their appearance with their peers, but also need to compare their finances with uncles in their forties or fifties. Even if you are better than most boys, you may still be worthless to your sweetheart because she has no so-called "feelings" for you.
Nowadays, it is really difficult for boys to pursue girls, so let’s talk about why girls are so difficult to pursue.
When girls and boys establish romantic relationships, they often have two modes: the pursuer mode and the heartthrob mode. The pursuer model means that boys keep giving and approaching to win the heart of girls. The heart-beater mode means that both parties have mutual feelings for each other and enter the love stage very naturally.
Therefore, the more effective way to attract girls now is the law of attraction. It is not easy to make a girl fall in love with you and develop a consensual relationship. However, the law of attraction also has certain flaws, because attraction is random. Maybe Dilireba's beauty is attractive to you, but it will no longer be attractive to another person.
It is precisely because of this random phenomenon that the goddess in your heart becomes the basin in the eyes of the rich. In the same way, the attraction you think may not be attractive at all in her eyes. Not worth mentioning. And many "attractions" - looks, money, height, family background, etc., are difficult to copy, which leads to the fact that a considerable number of boys will not attract any girls in their lives, and women are willing to be with them Not because of him as a person, but because of things outside of him.
The 80-20 rule has determined that the outstanding attractions in this world will only be possessed by a few people, and girls are enjoying this Such a heart-pounding feeling that one ignores the fact that one's own conditions are not in line with the attraction one is addicted to.
Of course, most people in this world have rare moments when they feel their heart beat in their hearts, so the more common way to flirt with girls is--dog-licking pursuit. Putting your hope in constant relationships, care, and dedication, and using sincerity and time to impress girls' defenses. Of course, there are many girls who use this set of techniques, but there is also no shortage of girls who are immune to this method.
Because many girls say that they have no "feel" at all in pursuer mode, this also leads to boys pursuing girls. Sometimes it feels difficult:
1. There is a class gap. In the past, the gap between the rich and the poor around people was not large, and the migration of groups was very small. The suitors of village beauties are all poor young men, and a rich second generation from the capital will not appear out of nowhere. But today this is the norm. The vast world your goddess has seen has made her subconsciously pass. Got ityou.
2. The growth of extreme feminism, as women's rights are gradually being taken seriously by people, has given rise to extremes. Movies, TV dramas, videos and other media cultures have tried their best to exaggerate kneeling and licking postures, causing many girls to start to regard themselves as goddesses, and of course they expect to be tall, rich and handsome. Her confession would be unacceptable to any honest person.
