When getting along with a girl, how to judge whether she likes you? This should be a question that many boys want to know. Below, Xiaoyu will share with you how to test whether she likes you or not when she is in love? What you need to know before chasing girls!
1. Understand the signs that a girl likes you
Let’s look at a conversation first.
Male: No contact for a long time. What have you been busy with recently?
Female: You care about me so much! In fact, it’s nothing, just a dog that works overtime!
Male: Your boss is so perverted. It’s not the busy season and he works overtime all the time.
Female: Who says it’s not! He just wants to show off to the boss and pulls us to be courteous. What a bitch!
Male: Okay, don’t be depressed. Can I treat you to dinner on the weekend?
Female: Okay, you send us your location and I’ll calculate the time.
Brothers, use your brains and judge this conversation. Does this girl like this boy? There are many brothers who claim to be love saints and their analysis is very clear:
"Look, she is teasing this guy for caring about her. This is sharing her emotions and status."
"Look, she and this guy are scolding the boss behind his back for being a pervert. They don't mind talking about such an intimate topic."
"Look, she so happily agreed to go out to dinner with this guy. This is definitely a show, and it can be won properly.”
I will show this conversation to the female friends around me. Look, they would only say this when asked what their interest level in a boy is. The answer I got was completely opposite to that of the brothers. The girl said that as long as she was an ordinary friend, it would be fine. There is absolutely no good feeling about any special ingredients. To put it bluntly, in the eyes of women, saying this is the same as saying hello or asking if you have eaten, and it means nothing.
Of course, it is true that when a girl likes you, she will have these signals:
For example, she is very excited to chat with you, is willing to talk to you about some private topics, and readily agrees to you. I don’t mind your physical touch...
But you can’t use these signals to infer and test whether she likes you or not. Because you made a serious logical error. It's because she likes you that she has these signals, not because she has these signals and that's why she likes you.
2. Only by being favored can you be confident
If you have to find a signal to prove that she likes you, I have the most reliable answer and the least likely to cause misjudgment. :preference!
To explain, when a girl only does this one thing to you, then she definitely likes you.
For example, she is a social phobic and usually doesn’t talk to boys unless necessary. But when you chat with her, she replies quickly and positively.
For example, she is a stay-at-home girl who won’t go out on a date with anyone, but when you call her, she immediately orders herself out of the house.
For example, she always looks plain to everyone, but as long as you are around, she will put on exquisite makeup and dress up beautifully.
For example, she has a very conservative personality and never goes out to play after dark, but she doesn’t mind playing with you all night long.
For example, she will say to you: "You are different from other men", "I just like chatting with you", "Only you understand me best"...
The girl you prefer is the type worth fighting for.
This is the special treatment just for you.
It’s not that the signals you listed are unreasonable, but in comparison, they are more convincing because they are not favored.
3. How much of yourself can you show in front of her
If you still want to know what she thinks of you How much you like her, just refer to one point: how much of yourself you can show in front of her.
Some girls are gentle and sweet towards men. They look affectionate to everyone, but in fact some of them are cold on the inside. You said we could talk after we got home, but she said she didn’t like chatting on WeChat; you wanted to show off your football skills, but she said she wasn’t interested in sports; you said you would take her home after get off work, but she said she would work overtime... She didn’t give you any expression and If you don't have the opportunity to show off, then it doesn't make sense for her to be warm and polite to you.
It’s not as good as those girls who are lukewarm and ambiguous towards you. They may make you uncomfortable with their attitude, but they give you a break in their behavior. She said she didn't talk much but gave you her contact information. She didn't agree to your invitation but said she would see if she had time. She was willing to open herself up to you and accept your kindness.
Everyone knows, this is like a girl breaking up. No matter how ruthless she is, it doesn't matter, it still depends on how ruthless she is. They say "don't do it", and all WeChat calls will be blocked, but Weibo will not be blocked, isn't it just to leave you a way to survive? A woman who is really cruel to break up will not leave a single word, she will directly cut off all contact methods and all possibilities.
If you want to know how much she likes you, you need to see how big a window she has left for you. How can you be in front of her? The more you show yourself, the better your chances of winning.
