Marriage requires both husband and wife to work together and maintain it. In marriage, there is generally a saying of "three years of pain and seven years of itch". So what does the seven year itch mean and what causes it? What?
1. What does the seven-year itch mean?
What does the seven-year itch mean? Many things will develop into problems in the seventh year regardless of human will, and marriage is certainly no exception. Therefore, the "seven-year itch" generally refers to the fact that in the seventh year of marriage, people may feel bored due to the dull routine of married life, and have to go through a crisis test (referring to the possibility of extramarital affairs, extramarital affairs, and cheating). This test is a turning point in the relationship. Once successful, the relationship can develop in a healthy direction; otherwise, the two may part ways and fall apart, which may eventually lead to the disintegration of the relationship and the separation of work and wealth. Of course, if there is a problem in the marriage, it may not necessarily last for seven years, longer or shorter. It may only take one or two years, or even the itch may start soon after the marriage.
The seven-year itch is actually a test for the relationship between two people. Once the seven-year itch has passed, the relationship between the two people will be able to develop in a good direction, and conversely, the two people may develop into each other. Parting ways leads to divorce. In fact, if there is a problem in the marriage, it may not necessarily last seven years. Some may be long, some may be short, and some may be itchy after half a year or just a few days after marriage.
What causes the two-year itch?
1. Too lonely
Most divorced couples are because they live in two places, do not have a normal sex life, and their relationship is not as passionate as it was originally. At this time, if one of the spouses cannot bear the loneliness and has a third person, the marriage may fall apart in an instant.
2. Lack of understanding
In fact, many people do not consider the other person’s personality when they get married. Can they fully accept that they will get married after spending a lifetime together? Later, due to personality problems between the two people, various conflicts and quarrels occurred in their married life. As a result, the rift between the two people became wider and wider, and finally ended in divorce.
3. Sexual life is not harmonious
Confucius once said: "Food and color are the nature of food." The so-called food Sex also means that sex life is as important as eating. There is an old saying in China: "People are like iron, and rice is like steel. If you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry." If the sexual life of the couple is not harmonious for a long time, then the married life will not be satisfactory and happy enough. Sometimes men are self-righteous and always like to put the responsibility on women. I blame my wife for not knowing how to introduce new things from the old, and blame her for not fulfilling her duty as a woman. The fault lies with the woman. This is of course male chauvinism. DisharmoniousBoth men and women are responsible for their sexual life. Men can't just solve problems and enjoy things without exploring taste and fun.
4. Babies of two people
Why is it said that having a baby will lead to divorce? Nowadays, some people are between 22 and 25 years old when they get married, especially Some couples raise the baby together. When the baby is being raised, both people are under great pressure, and conflicts are most likely to arise. 17. Because of the increase in expenses for the baby, the two of them have to take care of the baby at home alone. The other person is working hard outside and cannot understand each other. Then at this time the two people will blindly separate without being mature enough.
