"How to tell if your ex wants to get back together?" This question was asked by a fan when he came to consult. I thought about it and found that there are many people who are troubled by this problem, so I will share it with everyone today. Let’s discuss it together. If you want to know if your ex wants to get back together, let’s take a look at these points.
Reason for breaking up
The reason for your breakup is a problem that can be solved, such as distance, age problems, parental objections, etc.
For some problems that are difficult to solve, such as two people insisting on refusing to live in the other city;
When parents insist on breaking up, if these problems cannot be solved, then Even if the relationship is restored, it will not last long. The problem will reoccur.
If you don’t know how to maintain a relationship just because of the way you get along, when you really change, the other party will be willing to give you a chance. As long as these problems are solved, the problems that hinder your relationship will The obstacle is removed and things can get back together.
Whether the other party is in the window period
It does not mean that he still misses you during the window period. This is mainly to judge roughly:
The other party is still in the window period. I haven't met a more suitable partner, and the impact of my last relationship on this person has not completely disappeared yet.
If you contact the other party at this time, there is a high probability that you can still get along as friends. Being able to do this means that the other party is willing to give you a chance to get closer to you.
What is his reaction when he gets your information from a third party?
Please note that what is mentioned here is to use a third party to [explore the news]
Instead of letting a third party convey your desire to get back together!
Have you ever encountered a situation where a third party was not helpful? For example, you went to the other party and said: I think you two are very good. Can you get back together? What do you think? (This will make the other party wary, thinking why does one need an outsider to ask about their relationship? Why do they still ask this question after breaking up for so long? Maybe they can just say "impossible" and it will be over)
It's best to test it casually: I saw so-and-so (your name) recently and felt that he had changed a lot. If the other party shows curiosity at this time, or asks about your situation, or speaks positively about you, it means that the other party's dislike of you is no longer high.
When talking about feelings, does the other party have any hints of "possibility"
What will the other party say? What? To give you an example:
A. I did something wrong before. You are a nice person, but there are some things that I am not sensible about.
B. I also did something wrong in this relationship. It’s not all your fault. It would have been better if we could have been more mature at the time.
Do you see the difference? Sentence A is mainly a summary and only has an objective evaluation of you; Sentence B contains expectations, and the other party may always subconsciously feel that there is still a possibility of repairing your relationship. of.
Some people may still keep in touch with their ex after breaking up, so you must pay attention to the details! The other party may reveal some true thoughts unconsciously.
Do you still maintain some kind of contact with you?
Usually the best cases for us to recover are such as the breakup between classmates at school; or the breakup of the same company and still not leaving the company. . These environments are very convenient for our follow-up actions to recover. If a person leaves his job immediately after breaking up with you, or changes his life after breaking up, it means that the other person really wants to cut off the relationship with you directly and stop contacting you.
If the other person can still maintain some kind of contact with you, and you can still have some reasons to see each other, this will be a great help in getting back together.
