Emotional means that people are very emotional and prone to sentimentality. They say that girls are emotional while men are rational. So do you know why women are so emotional?
Let’s take a look first. If a woman is very rational, what impact will she have on men?
1. Increases the cost of courtship for boys
If a woman is very rational, it means all the 'romance' It is no longer easy to talk about it and get it. The way to pursue women and the cost of future offspring are based on women's "fully realistic thinking". It is just talk without practice, and there is no real money. There is no way to fool it, the actual cost is obviously higher.
And imagine how difficult it would be for a man from an ordinary family with a relatively low starting point to pursue primitive social status and accumulation of wealth after graduation. Not only does he need excellent abilities, but he also needs opportunities. There is no wrong industry to enter. , good personal connections and good luck are indispensable, and it is possible to be qualified to "fall in love, marry and have children" without the help of the native family.
The absolutely rational opposite sex will undoubtedly become a very, very high reality threshold.
In this case, assuming that every woman values ????all practical conditions (including excellent personal abilities) in choosing a mate, then many boys will inevitably lose their mate selection at least during the best mate selection period and even in the future. right.
Just as more and more girls are hurt after being deceived by scumbag men, they learn the painful experience and know the truth, which greatly increases the cost of identifying boys' sense of security. Boys have to increase their costs in order to court a mate. The investment in various aspects of "self-expression in front of girls", including time, money, attitude, etc., has undoubtedly become a higher mountain for boys.
It’s not that most boys are ready to fight with nothing, but it means that if they clear five levels and kill six generals, and have a sincere attitude, they can win the beauty, but now they have passed ten levels. After killing eight generals, and there are many big bosses in the level, people who don’t have enough blood tanks may just give up.
There are girls who set the levels. Past experiences have made girls more rational and calm, and the idea of ??distrusting boys has increased. There is also the involution of same-sex competition between scumbags and straight men. . The more you understand the truth, the more difficult it becomes.
2. Losing control
Boys and girls have somewhat different needs for a sense of security in love.
If women’s sense of security comes from boys’ preference and confirmation of themselves, then men’s sense of security often comes from self-confidence.
This self-confidence covers many factors. For example, girls can be determined by themselves. Love relationships and rhythms are under their own control. There are not many risk factors for girls (cheating).high risk) etc.
Many boys may not realize it, but their subconscious tendency to choose a mate must revolve around ‘women’s controllability’.
Unless for the sake of future generations, generally boys are not willing to choose a girl who is better than him in all aspects, because they feel that they are 'uncontrollable'; they are not willing to choose a girl with too many love histories, because there is too much uncertainty about parenthood; I am willing to choose someone who is relatively clean and simple in dress, diligent and thrifty in housekeeping, gentle and virtuous; compared with twenty and thirty, I am also willing to choose twenty. In addition to being young and beautiful, it is also because it satisfies boys’ needs and desire for control.
However, the 'very rational' opposite sex is very 'unlovable' in the eyes of boys.
For example, a very rational girl tends to have too many things in her life. She cannot be lazy or fool around in her life, but she is easy to control herself;
Very rational girl People tend to be calm and self-controlled. They have many of their own principles and rules. Women who are less tolerant of people who do not conform to their own principles are less tolerant than women who are less gentle;
Very rational people are not very She is easily moved and can be coaxed by other girls. Being a rational and strong woman is not something that can be done with just a few nice words.
Boys’ curiosity is strong, but they are also competitive;
Mystery is good, but being too mysterious can make people feel uneasy and anxious. This is not the basis for a good relationship.
On the contrary, girls will also think that girls are more inclined to be protected. If being very rational is a sign of strength, girls are willing to accept it. Boys do not rely on thinking, but it is difficult to accept it.
‘Uncertainty of security’ and ‘too high cost of operating relationships’ lead to ‘terrible’.
Secondly, if women are generally very rational, girls will find it very scary.
The terrible self-control is a very powerful force. If it does not refer to love, it is quite good for girls.
There are always some very powerful women in life. They are very charming, self-controlled, independent, capable and able to manage their own lives very well, but these girls often don’t need men very much.
When you don’t pay too much attention to family and love, it is easy to achieve extraordinary performance in various fields.
For example, Marie Curie; or the vision is not limited to men, and the emotional relationship is only "for one's own use", such as Wendi Deng and so on. Most of them are very rational and will not be like a crying little girl, but rationality will help them live a good life and love themselves more.
Having seen so many things, they naturally have comparisons and choices. Their better vision and critical understanding will also make it difficult for them to fall in love.
Therefore, women without love lose their sensibility and the tenderness and cuteness that women show in front of their loved ones. From the perspective of boys, they have "more competitors and less people to please", which is naturally "terrible".
If among girls, Green Tea, who has a strong rational purpose, will try his best to achieve his goal, then girls who are overwhelmed with longing for love will think that people like them are also 'terrible' .
