Compared with other social methods, blind date is more secure and easier to succeed. After all, they had a general understanding of each other before they met, and both parties knew the basics. So what should you do if you are also issued a good person card on a blind date?
Under normal circumstances, there are two reasons why a girl on a blind date is given a good person card:
Reason one: The topic is too boring when chatting on a blind date
When you first meet on a blind date, your date will be very curious about you, and at this time many of us boys begin to enter a strange circle: keep asking questions! For example : Where are you from? Your home seems to be an hour away from ours?
What kind of job do you do now? What time do you usually get off work? Do you have any older brothers, sisters, or younger brothers and sisters? It’s very hard for our parents to raise us! We need to be nice to our parents... and so on, boring questions like this. After one or two rounds of chatting, the other party has begun to show no interest. They feel that you have no emotional intelligence and are a boring person. We can't talk to each other personally! What’s left after the curiosity is over is blandness! So, in the end, I got a good leader card.
Faced with such a problem, what should we do?
Therefore, when chatting on a blind date, we can start to ask a question at the appropriate time and use this question to expand the topic. .
For example: You asked a question, "Do you work in Guangzhou?" If a girl replies "Yes," don't ask what you do for a living at this time, but start a new statement tone. Topic: "The morning tea in Guangzhou is delicious, I have to go there every time."
In this way, the topic can be successfully transferred to the topic of food. If a girl replies, "Well, do you come here often?" Then you can say: "Well, I have a good friend over there, and I heard that the seafood at Chen Clan Temple in Guangzhou is very fresh and delicious."
We have to change the topic again, and through the topic of delicious food, we can also change it to travel, or movies, etc., so that the other party will feel that you are not a straight man who can't chat, has no experience, and is very straight! In fact, the main reason why the topic is uninteresting is that they rarely have contact with girls and have little experience in love. Moreover, these boys spend most of their time at work or playing games, without experiencing life or establishing their own life circle and interests. Naturally, you will feel at a loss for words when talking about anything. For boys who have topics, or even interesting topics, these boys will plant many photos in the chat process to open up the topic and create a feeling that you have many interests and hobbies. You have a rich life. Being with you will not be boring, and life will be very interesting in the future.
As long as you are not dating a girl because of her parents, as long as you and she have something to talk about and have common topics, we can be together. The probability is 50%.Why is it only 50%? This is the second reason for being given the good guy card in a blind date.
Reason 2: Unable to meet the needs of girls
Under normal circumstances, girls who come for a blind date will have several emotional experiences, not a blank piece of paper, so she will form her own She already has her own requirements for her future boyfriend and marriage partner. She also knows that love needs bread as the foundation for a relationship to be stable for a long time. Girls will not reveal these deep-seated requirements and needs directly. , because if she reveals her need for money and materials, it will make the other party think that she is very materialistic, and it will also make the introducer look down on her, and let other people around her know and think that she is very materialistic! So if you cannot meet the needs of a girl, No matter how well you chat during the blind date, there is a high probability that you will still be given the good guy card.
Therefore, during the blind date, you need to show your understanding of career and family, so that she can feel that you are a thoughtful person, have a plan for your career, and have a sense of responsibility for your family.
This is why women often choose a potential stock instead of a rich second generation, because this potential stock can sense from the interaction with him that he has more prospects and has a lot to do with his career and family. Strong sense of responsibility.
So what should we do?
For example:
Girls Question: What is your zodiac sign?
Boys replied: Cancer
Girls replied: It seems to be a very homely and insecure zodiac sign
Boys replied: A perfect zodiac sign. Can you say that? Haha
The girl replied: Why
The boy replied: Because of the Gu family
The girl replied: What does the Gu family have to do with perfection?
< p> The boy replied: The Gu family is very good. Nowadays, many people make money, but when they return home, they will not do some housework for each other, or take care of the children, integrate into the family, and create a warm atmosphere, which will make the other party physically and mentally tired. In this way Children who grow up in a poor family environment will not know how to share, and will become like a father who will not care about the family in the future, has no sense of responsibility, only makes money, and is handsome, I think it is passable at mostGirls Reply: Haha, what you said makes sense. Why didn’t I think of it? You’re so awesome.
Through this kind of chat, if you are a girl, you will feel that this boy feels like this, even if you don’t know much about it. Handsome, even if you are not a rich second generation, you will still feel that this boy has a strong sense of family responsibility and is very thoughtful. His family should be a very loving and harmonious family.
Slowly, girls will feel that you are more mature than other blind dates and more suitable for marriage, because you meet her needs during the interaction! Of course, careerism also needs to be shared with her during the chat to give the other person a feeling.That is, you are usually very busy and often follow your boss to talk about things and attend meetings with your boss. You are the person the boss trusts most, so naturally your blind date will not send you a good person card anymore.