When chasing girls, some boys are sure to chase them, but some guys are not able to chase girls because they have committed some taboos. Today, the editor will tell you the top ten taboos in chasing girls. If you want to be single, don't step on the trap.
1. Kneeling and licking
The biggest taboo when chasing girls is kneeling and licking. Girls may like "dogs" , but I will never like a man who kneels and licks me like a "dog". Through kneeling and licking, even if I catch up with this girl, I don't know which day I will fall in love with him.
Although it is right to treat a girl well when you are chasing her, you cannot just be nice to her. Instead, you must know how to guide the girl and learn to create attraction.
2. Confessing too early
In fact, it is not impossible to confess, but some boys are too impatient, and their relationship with girls has not yet reached that stage. If you express your love in a hurry, you will only reveal your neediness prematurely and get the good person card.
You must know that girls are very insecure creatures, and confession is only a way to confirm the relationship. If you want a girl to accept your confession, you must at least make her feel that your relationship has reached its climax. At that point, you no longer feel insecure. So premature confession is definitely not advisable.
3. Use money to solve problems
If you pursue the girl with the purpose of getting along with her for a long time She, then never use money to solve problems.
I believe that when you are chasing girls, you have also discovered those good girls. When you spend money on her without knowing her well, she will either politely refuse or find a way. Make it up to you, after all she just wants a love, not a deal. She also doesn't want you to think she's materialistic. On the other hand, those women who smile and call you husband as long as you give them gifts and red envelopes, what if someone spends more money for her? Do you think she calls you husband or the other person’s husband?
Generally, money depends on spending money. The love you get isn't called love, it's just a transaction. Girls all understand this. So, when she wants to get along with you sincerely, but you try to pursue her with money, it will only make her feel that you don't respect her.
4. Show off
Being rich and capable are actually details that can add points when chasing girls. But if you don’t know how to show off, but are eager to let girls know, this behavior is tantamount to showing off. In the eyes of girls, it will not only lose points, but also be labeled as having low emotional intelligence.
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5. Care too much about what a girl says
If I love her, I have to care about every word she says. She said my dress didn’t look good and I would never wear it again. She said she didn’t like wearing eyeglasses.I wear contact lenses for men who wear glasses...
She said she doesn’t like you, so you will leave her?
Paying attention to what a woman says is a mistake that many men often make. , this is normal.
It’s just that you always care about what she says, which will make her feel that you already value her enough. There is no need to work hard to make you care about her.
In other words:
She can fly you in the sky like a kite right now, call you when she wants to see you, and send you a message when she doesn’t want to see you. Too lazy to reply. Even secretly dating other men behind your back.
6. Don’t pay attention to self-investment
As the saying goes, you need to be tough to make iron. When chasing girls, you need to pay attention to self-investment. Go far beyond investing in the other person. In fact, both men and women are ordinary people and visual animals. The first impression is very important. Wash your face frequently, dress generously and appropriately, and spend some money to get a haircut that suits you. These self-investments are actually not that difficult to make.
7. Too narrow-minded
Also, as a man, you must be generous and don’t take money too seriously. Some people think that letting women spend money for themselves will show that they are awesome. Wow, I think this is wrong. In this society, men should take responsibility and provide value to others. They are the real men. Only in this way can they win the hearts of women. There are many female friends around me who hate stingy men. So, don’t do this!
8. No opinion
Such a man has no opinion of his own and listens to women in everything, giving up all the initiative between you. To the woman. Women don’t like men who have no ideas or opinions. She will feel that such a man is not conducive to survival in the world. Even if she likes you very much, if she has no opinions, she will instantly lose interest in you!
9. Tight press
Don’t chase girls too hard. A little fly will follow you around all day long. It's so annoying that she can't bear it, not to mention that she can bear it when you are such an older person? How to make her look forward to meeting you is worth studying.
10. Stinginess
As men, if we want to pursue girls, of course we cannot act too stingy in front of girls. How can we talk about masculinity like this? As a man, in front of women, even if you are usually very stingy and economical. But you still have to be generous in front of the girl you like. Some people think that men and women are equal in love, and girls should also spend money on boys. In fact, this is wrong from a certain perspective. At least in today's society, it is generally accepted that men should take responsibility, including treating guests to dinner and so on. As long as you are generous and decent, you will certainly win the favor of the girl you like.Heart.
