Some inexperienced boys often make various little moves due to nervousness when dating girls.
These small actions may not seem important to boys, but for girls who are careful and sensitive, these small actions of yours may become the reason for their disgust.
Next, let’s take a look at some small actions that will offend girls during a date.
1. Shaking legs
It is said that every boy who loves to shake his legs was a dedicated sewing machine in his previous life.
But all joking aside, leg shaking is indeed the number one spot on most girls’ “most annoying boy actions list”!
When a boy shakes his legs frequently, It will make others feel unconfident and nervous. Because in most cases leg shaking is an uncontrolled behavior, which means that your brain is currently in a dissociated state, that is, you are distracted.
When a girl sees you shaking your legs non-stop, she will feel that you don’t care enough about her and don’t pay enough attention to this date, which will naturally create a bad impression on you.
In addition, we often say, "Standing has a standing phase, and sitting has a sitting phase."
A person who cannot even control his body and voice will give others the feeling of "being careless". Therefore, if you want to successfully attract girls, it is better to control your body movements.
2. Eyes wandering, not daring to look directly at the other person
In the movie , the moment the male and female protagonists' eyes meet, the audience will realize in their hearts "Oh, what plot is about to start." It can be seen that eye contact always reveals some important information in daily life.
But it is a pity that in reality, many men, especially those who do not have much relationship experience, will always feel nervous unconsciously when they meet the girl they like for the first time, and their eyes cannot focus. At a fixed point, he always drifts around unconsciously, not daring to look directly at the girl.
Who knows, this is a sign of extreme low self-esteem. If you are in a state of wandering eyes throughout the entire conversation with a girl, the girl will quickly label you as "cowardly and timid". Label.
Here, the editor does not expect everyone to develop a pair of "electric eyes" like Tony Leung, but at least you must not dodge your eyes when chatting with a girl, and be able to meet her eyes confidently and boldly. Show off your male hormones.
3. Speak too fast
Speak too fast,It shows that you are worried that others will interrupt you, or that others will soon lose interest in listening to you, but you also want to be heard and want to say something interesting so that you can keep it before they lose interest. They are interested in it, so they want to finish it in a short time.
In the eyes of girls, this is also a sign of very low self-confidence.
A truly confident and generous person will laugh and talk freely when chatting with others. This natural temperament will make the speaker more attractive.
4. Move your hands and feet
Many boys look at some "body parts" After the article "Jinmo", I copied it and applied it to the girls I just met. I would pull the girl's little hand and touch the girl's waist at every turn. As a result, I was either disgusted by the girl and blocked, or got a big mouth.
I have said it many times before, "body movement" is an important way to upgrade a relationship, but it is not a means to take advantage of a girl.
In other words, all physical movements must be based on the premise that you and the girl have known each other for a while, and the girl has a good impression of you.
On the contrary, if you have just met a girl once or twice, and she has not shown any signs that she is interested in you, and you rush to "move in" rashly, it will only make the girl think that you are... A "diaosi man" who loves to eat girls' tofu.
