I have to say that "men are not bad, but women are not loving". Although it is relatively general, it still makes sense. Of course, the "bad" here is definitely not a boy with bad looks, let alone a boy with corrupt thoughts and morals. So what kind of bad men do women like?
1. "Fake" and immoral
The difference between being fake and serious and being serious is that being fake attracts people to love you, while being serious attracts people to beat you up.
So, this “irregular” point should be stopped.
There is a kind of boy who seems to be very informal in daily communication. You say something and he insists on saying something else. You talk about things seriously, and he laughs and laughs with you.
Sometimes it’s quite annoying, but it’s not a big deal, so it’s just a joke.
If something really happens, he will be able to think of countermeasures immediately and will take the initiative to help deal with it without you having to ask.
There is also a kind of boy who can get along well with all girls, and he will take all the jokes with him without fail.
But once a girl is really attracted to her, as long as he doesn’t like her, he will make it clear and keep a distance.
This kind of boy, on the surface, you don’t know what he is thinking. It seems that he has never been sincere to anyone and can get along with anyone.
But after getting along for a long time, true friends can feel it. They actually understand it very clearly in their hearts.
They have a clear mind about who they have a good relationship with and who they can be friends with.
So, when getting along with this kind of boy, girls will not be very serious. Sometimes joking is actually a kind of spice to ordinary life. As long as you don't have any really bad intentions, she will feel relaxed and safe when she is with you.
2. Create a sense of contrast
Some people, you see, what do they usually care about? He doesn't take it seriously, but he shows a little sense of responsibility and carefulness at critical moments, which is very rare.
On the contrary, for those who are kind and careful every day, others may gradually get used to it. Why can't this be a way for us to learn?
I know that many of us boys are more introverted and sensitive, so what's the matter, we can still create a sense of contrast. If you always present a very formal and serious image in front of a girl, she may think you are rigid and boring.
If one day you deliberately show her that you actually have a childish and playful side, she will definitely be curious in her heart. If you don’t believe me, try it?
3. Show your own personality
Sometimes it is precisely because most people live in a "containment", follow the rules, and make themselves uncomfortable to please others. , so those who live outside the "containment" are particularly conspicuous and attractive.
What do you mean by this? In fact, what girls want is not necessarily a perfect boyfriend who takes care of everything. , compared with such a sense of distance, maybe a real boy who she can understand and approach can capture their hearts better.
So, what’s wrong with staying quiet if you don’t want to talk? Yes. What's wrong with expressing your ideas? As long as we treat others with a minimum of respect, what's wrong with different opinions?
Try to stay away from people and things that you don't like, and always stay confident and neither humble nor arrogant, that's the real thing Attracting people in terms of personality!
To sum up, the so-called "bad boys" are just boys who know how to be themselves and how to be considerate to girls. Have you learned it?
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