If you want to continue a relationship that is firmly opposed by the woman’s parents, you must first ensure that your significant other really wants to go on with you. In this tug-of-war, your significant other is the only one who can. People who help you.
If your partner is determined to be with you, it's easy: now, your partner needs to My parents started to practice "non-violence and non-cooperation" - it was okay to go on a blind date, but I just didn't feel good about it; it was okay to get to know other members of the opposite sex, but I just didn't like them; they weren't allowed to meet each other, and they didn't talk back, but they should meet. We still have to meet...
Note: It must be "non-violent and non-cooperation" and do not have a direct conflict with your parents, because if your partner is because of the relationship between you and your own If your parents have a head-on conflict, it will only further make the other parent hate you even more and have a bad impression of you.
The last thing is to find ways to win the approval of the other parent and fill in the shortcomings as much as possible.
Now let’s sort out the situation: Although the other parent is not satisfied with you, their child has never made any new relationship progress, and as time drags on, the parents themselves are also anxious... .. When the child is older and can no longer be controlled, if this tug-of-war lasts long enough, one parent will often compromise.
But at this time, we also need to give the other parent some steps to step down:
For example, the other parent If you don’t like your academic qualifications, then you can try to take the exam for an on-the-job graduate student. There are many on-the-job graduate students who can take the exam with a college degree, and they are very good;
For example, the other person’s parents don’t like you. If you have a household registration, you can try to get more down payment, or buy more betrothal gifts or dowry when you get married, to show your economic value and make the other parent feel less disadvantaged;
For example Some parents are particularly concerned about whether the two people's zodiac signs are compatible. This is simpler. You can ask a mentor who has a good relationship to help you say a few words, help smooth things over, and give the other parent a psychological comfort...
Does the other parent know that your academic qualifications are very good? Do the other parent know that even so, you may have a registered permanent residence in another place? Do the other parent know these horoscopes? Is it possible that something is false?
- Even if you know, what can you do? There is no other way, your child is about to be left behind, and all the people you introduced to your child are getting married. What else can they do?
And under appropriate circumstances, they really need to know how to package themselves:
The head of a technology company department, if you have housing in the city, you have to live inRelatives who work in the government, parents with guaranteed pension, family of teachers, scholarly family, professional master's degree from a famous school;
——A small start-up company with 20 people, a team leader in charge of 3 people; barely able to afford it I have a small down payment and a lot of mortgage; I have a distant relative who works as a clerk in a government department; my parents are teachers in a small city in the 18th tier; I am a part-time self-study master's degree student.
These two descriptions are about the same person.
Do you understand what I mean?
Therefore, after these three steps, the attitude of the other parent's parents will be more or less relaxed.
