Girls are easily emotional, especially girls in love, who are easily angry because of various things. So when your partner is angry, how do you, as a boyfriend, comfort her?
When most boys are angry with their partner, they usually say: "What happened?" "What's wrong with you?" Such words will only add fuel to the fire and make the partner even more angry. If you want to coax her, you must first understand why she is angry, and then coax her according to the situation, for example:
1. The object is because of you If you do something wrong to make your partner angry, and you want to make her happy, you need to admit your mistake first. I just hope you can admit your mistake to her head on, or Just explain a little bit about why you did what you did, and at least prove that you care enough about her feelings. For example:
Hold her hands and look at her sincerely, "Dear, I'm sorry, I didn't take care of you while playing games. I will uninstall the game immediately." "Dear I haven’t paid enough attention to you during this time. There are a lot of things going on in the company. The woman I often chat with is a female colleague from the company. We are just working together. Let me show you our chat history.”
If you admit your mistake. During the process, if the girl is not very active or is sulking with you, then you need to show some attentiveness. For example, you can help a girl pour tea and water, buy some snacks she likes to eat, and watch her favorite idol dramas or variety shows with her. In short, as long as it is something she likes, you can do it for her. This will allow her to see your sincerity in admitting your mistake, and your relationship will soon ease.
Sometimes when a girlfriend is angry, she doesn’t want your apology, she just wants your love, your attention, and being with you.
2. The object is angry because of other things
If the object is angry because of other things, such as I was scolded by my boss at the company, had a disagreement with my best friend, and failed to grab the latest version of lipstick. At this time, what girls need is listening and comfort, what they need is companionship, and what they need is to vent their emotions.
The biggest taboo when coaxing her at this time is preaching, such as "When you work in the company, you must listen to your boss, and the boss is also doing it for your own good." "Your best friend may not understand what you mean, so she is making trouble with you. "You know how to dress up every day, but you still want to grab that lipstick that is so expensive." No one wants to listen to other people's lectures. I believe that if a girl hears words like the above, she will be even more angry and will never let you go to bed at night.
The correct approach is to stand from the perspective of a girl and put yourself in the shoes of a girl. Your girlfriend is already very unhappy when bad things happen to her. If you blame her again, it will undoubtedly cause trouble for her. You can say something like: "What?"Silly boss, if he scolds you again, I'll beat him up for you. If it doesn't work, we'll quit. "I have to tell your best friend next time I see her. How could she bully my little cutie?" "Forget it if you didn't get it this time. Let's go to the store to buy the latest one during this week's break." ”
Or you might as well try telling jokes and sweet words. When telling jokes, she can clearly feel you. You have already sacrificed your own face for her, so no matter whether the joke you tell is funny or not, your girlfriend can feel your sincerity in making her happy. As long as you put your heart into it, she will feel satisfied.
Everyone likes to hear some sweet words, especially a girl in love. Every sweet word you say is very important to her, so if you make your girlfriend angry, you can do it. Even some earthy love words spoken in her ear are effective.
