If you want to chase a girl you like, it will definitely not work if you only use men’s inertial thinking. You must understand women’s thinking and improve your emotional intelligence to understand what they need. So what should we do specifically?
1. Girls think more emotionally.
Girls Most of them pay more attention to the feeling of getting along with each other.
For example, you may not have much feelings for this person at first, but after meeting you, you find that his conversation seems to be quite humorous, or that he makes you feel very comfortable. Well, you can continue to contact him and give it a try.
Therefore, in most cases, girls think more emotionally than boys and care more about emotions.
Understand this, you can pay attention when chasing girls.
For example, when chatting, don’t always tell people the truth, you have to convince them.
Don’t say that there is no correct answer to many things. Even if there is, will winning get more meat or something?
Learn to listen to girls’ ideas and take care of them. Only with your emotions can you have the opportunity to continue to be in contact, right?
2. Girls pay attention to details
When a girl gets along with you, she will definitely notice a lot of details intentionally or unintentionally.
For example, do you have long nails, is your hair dry, do your clothes look cheap, etc.
Or your unintentional words can make her look at you as a person.
But don’t feel terrible. And paying attention to details is not necessarily a bad thing for boys.
Maybe you are cleaner than other boys, you pick up drink bottles on the road and throw them into the trash, you pay attention to girls' feelings when you talk, etc., which will make it easier for girls to like you.
So, everything has two sides. As long as you can make good use of this, you will create a lot of opportunities.
3. Girls like to "treat people wrongly"
The most typical thing is that girls say She has a cold, and many boys will tell her to drink more hot water.
Maybe they really think drinking hot water is effective, but girls will feel that this boy is not interested in her and is perfunctory.
In fact, most boys who say drinking more hot water are not right for the problem but for the person. They have only one idea in their minds: it can indeed solve the problem.
In the hearts of girls, this is the time when they are most vulnerable and sensitive. They wish they had someone who could take care of all her food and daily needs. She just needs to lie in bed and do nothing.
Therefore, boys’ thoughtfulness is particularly important. Because she won't think about whether the hot water pipe doesn't work, she will only care about whether you are paying attention to her.
4. Girls like "hints"
It may be that they are deeply influenced by traditional concepts, although More and more girls are daring to express love boldly, but there are still a large number of girls who feel that taking the initiative to pursue boys seems to be a bit of a loss.
However, this does not mean that they will give up completely. If they really meet someone they like, it will be difficult to hide it completely.
Some small expressions and behaviors are actually their hints.
In the hearts of these girls, you have received my signal and then take the initiative to pursue me. This is the correct step.
If you don’t feel it, or if you feel it and don’t take the initiative, it means you are either stupid or you don’t like me, so I will withdraw.
