Pursuing girls is a matter of skill, and chatting is the most important part of it. When chatting, you need to show your charm and attractiveness, and you also need to pay attention to your words and deeds to avoid leaving a bad impression on girls. Here are some tips for chatting with girls.
1. Break the silence
Many people will feel nervous and embarrassed before starting a chat, and this is when they need to break the silence. You can start by greeting, introducing yourself, or talking about your surroundings. If you have a common topic, even better, you can start directly from this topic.
For example, if you are attending an event, you can ask her what she thinks of the event; or you both like a certain star or movie , you can talk about your own opinions. Find a suitable topic to make chatting easy and enjoyable.
2. Attract her with a sense of humor
A sense of humor is one of the important weapons to attract girls. If you can use a sense of humor in your chat, it will not only entertain her, but also make her like you. But please note that humor does not mean cold jokes or vulgar jokes. You should choose the appropriate humor method according to the occasion and the girl's personality.
For example, you can use some funny emoticons or jokes to adjust the atmosphere; or add some of your own interesting anecdotes or short stories to the chat to make her feel relaxed and happy. Make her feel happy to be with you.
3. Be sincere
When pursuing girls, some people will deliberately pretend to be something they are not, which is a very wrong approach. Because what girls value most is sincerity and frankness. If you stay true to yourself, it will be easier for her to accept you.
Of course, while remaining sincere, you must also pay attention to your words and deeds, and not be too presumptuous or rude. Respect the girl's feelings and opinions and give her enough attention and care.
4. Be good at listening
Chatting is not just talking, but also requires being good at listening. Girls usually like to talk about their concerns. If you can listen to her opinions and suggestions carefully and respond appropriately, she will think that you are a very patient and caring person.
When chatting, be careful not to interrupt a girl’s speech, nor to talk about your own affairs blindly. Make her feel respected and understood so that a deeper communication can be established.
5. Express your feelings in a timely manner
In chatting, it is also very important to express your feelings in a timely manner. If you have a crush on her or want to develop a relationship further, express it appropriately. But pay attention to the method and occasion, and don't be too direct or offend her.
For example, before ending the chat, you can say "I enjoyed chatting with you today", or express your opinion on a certain topic and ask her for her opinion. Make her feel that you are interested in her and want to connect with her on a deeper level.
6. Leave a good impression when you end the chat
Finally, leave a good impression when you end the chat. You can end the chat with some polite words, such as "Thank you for chatting with me," or "I hope we have the opportunity to chat again." At the same time, you can also appropriately propose plans for the next meeting to make her feel that you value her.
When chasing girls, chatting is a very important part. You should pay attention to your words and deeds, show your charm and attraction, and at the same time respect girls' feelings and opinions. Only in this way can you establish a deeper communication and make her like you.
