Women are insecure, and mature men can bring more security to women. Therefore, girls in love often complain that their boyfriends are naive and immature. So when my girlfriend says that I am naive and immature, What should we do?
1. Analyze the reasons why your girlfriend says you are naive and immature
Since you You are already in a relationship with your girlfriend, which means that you were actually attracted to her before. And she said you were naive and immature only after they started dating, which means that you gave her a feeling of immaturity later on. Below, the editor lists some signs of immaturity in men to see if you lie down. Gun:
1. After falling in love, I am very attached to my girlfriend, and I feel that love is greater than anything else. It will make your girlfriend think that you are irresponsible, unmotivated, and independent, and make her feel unreliable to be with you.
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I only know how to be nice to my girlfriend, and I have no bottom line or principles. In the short term, it may make your girlfriend feel happy to be in love, but over time, she will find it boring and think you are immature because you don't have your own opinions.
3. You still flirt with other girls when you have a girlfriend.
4. I don’t want to make progress, and my girlfriend still doesn’t support her career.
5. Like to brag about yourself in front of your girlfriend.
6. Unable to control one’s emotions during love and like to lose temper.
7. A mama’s boy, he listens to his mother on everything and always stands by his mother whenever there is a disagreement.
8. When encountering a problem, you don’t think about how to solve it, but act coquettishly and try to get through it
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2. How to mature yourself
If you are unfortunate enough to fall victim to the immaturity listed above, that’s okay. You can try the following methods to mature yourself:
1. Maintain your independence. In fact, no matter you are a man or a woman, in the process of love, everyone has his own life. You cannot tie two people together in the name of love, otherwise it will easily give the other party a strong sense of restraint, and girls will think that you are a Children who will not grow up. So when you are in love, give yourself and the other person more private space.
2. You must have your own persistence and bottom line. You can change for your girlfriend, but try not to force yourself. If you like it, adapt to it; if you don't like it, stick to it. I believe your girlfriend will support your choice.
3. Since you are in love, you must be dedicated to avoid your girlfriend distrusting you.
4. Just because you have no money now, she is still willing to be with you, doesn’t meanShe doesn't long for the days of hope. Be more self-motivated and let your girlfriend see you working hard for your future together, so that she will never leave you.
5. Although sweet words can impress a woman in the short term, actions can tell your girlfriend your value more.
6. No matter what problems you encounter, you must learn to control your emotions. Don't let your girlfriend think you are moody, and don't take your anger out on others at will.
Of course, the occasional childishness and immaturity of boys in the process of love can be regarded as a kind of love interest, but if you are childish and immature regardless of the occasion, things, and time, it will make you unhappy. Your girlfriend realizes there is a problem between you. If you don't pay attention to it, the serious possibility is that you will break up.