Scumbags may indeed have many moral flaws, but it has to be said that compared to honest people, their understanding and judgment of many things still have merit. In fact, the biggest difference between an honest person and a scumbag is in thinking and cognition.
The most obvious difference in thinking between scumbags and honest people is the "stuck awareness".
What is "Stuck Awareness"? Let me give you an example, which may not be appropriate: Suppose two people are stranded on a desert island and find that the remaining supplies are only enough for one person to wait until rescue arrives, and then suddenly the two people discover I got a pistol that I don’t know if it can still be used.
The honest man is definitely the one who will starve to death. Because the scumbag will immediately grab the gun, point it at the honest man, threaten him not to move, and give him the supplies.
It doesn’t matter whether this gun has bullets or whether you know how to use a pistol. The scumbag will not think so much at all. He will immediately seize a position that gives him an absolute advantage, and then use this position to plunder other people's resources.
When the poor honest man saw the black muzzle of the gun, he had no time to think and was too frightened to move.
Just like a girl appears in front of two people at the same time, the scumbag will usually act first, talk to her first, make friends first, and try her best to understand the girl’s information first, while the honest guy will still I'm struggling with: "Is this girl single?" "Is my condition good enough?" - and the most uncomfortable thing is: often honest people may not have figured it out yet, but when they see the scumbag getting in first, they don't even dare to fight again. Say hello.
The honest person loses because he not only missed the opportunity to seize the position, but also did not even dare to test whether the opponent had Sit tight in this position.
But if a scumbag behaves so recklessly, he will definitely fail. Girls will definitely think he is greasy and they will definitely find him offensive.
——Yes, in fact, the success rate of scumbag men in pursuing girls is much lower than that of honest men.
But why do they still succeed?
Because of their low self-esteem and their "trial and error concept" that seems to be correct to a certain extent, the scumbags The "algorithm" is more accurate than an honest person.
Don’t think that scumbags are cheating, especially scumbags who can still become scumbags despite poor conditions. They really just do it because they have tried and made enough mistakes.
Why do girls take the initiative to pay for a scumbag? Shouldn’t it be the boys who give in love? Are girls moved?
You can ask those girlfriends who have very ordinary conditions but There are enough boys to fill a truckload, New Year is coming soon, you are giving SK2 fairy water to the girl you like, lamER facial cream, or LV bag.
There is a high probability that he will look at you with a crazy look and tell you: "If it were me, I would buy myself some good clothes."
If they have a budget of 1,000 yuan, they will spend 800 yuan on themselves, and then use 200 yuan to simply have a meal with a girl.
Girls will not think this meal is too shabby. On the contrary, many people will feel that they are very happy to be able to go out with the boy they like and eat whatever they want.
I know that after writing this, some people may think that these tricks are only used by little girls.
I actually have a very offensive saying that I don’t know whether to say or not: If you can’t even attract a little girl, a very ordinary girl, how can you expect those who are more charming and meaningful? Will girls with higher rankings be attracted to you?
So in fact, the difference between honest boys and scumbags is not really skills, but rather terrible cognition and concepts.
