Many boys know this truth when they lick like a dog and end up with nothing. However, when they chase girls, they still chase after them and unknowingly turn into dog lickers. What is the reason for this?
1. Inferior self-esteem
People who have low self-esteem usually They feel that there is a gap between themselves and girls, and they believe that she won’t look at them twice unless they put in a little more effort.
When they are chasing girls, they all have an ascetic mentality. They feel that girls are suffering from following them. Only by over-paying for girls can he gain psychological balance and feel that he is in front of girls. Have capital.
Most girls are disgusted by a man who makes them look humble. If you are a person with this kind of mentality, it will be difficult for the editor to change your personality with just a few words, but there are some One sentence must be said: when a boy positions a girl as a goddess, you are destined to lose her forever.
2. People-pleaser personality
This type of men always feel that girls are there only for pampering and pampering. It is the demeanor and obligation that they should have to take care of girls and let them go.
It’s hard to say much to this kind of person. Even if he kneels down and licks him, he still enjoys it. For him, this kind of thing is not necessarily a bad thing.
3. Poor growing environment
Traditional social concepts place higher demands on men than women. Men need to have the ability and career, as well as all kinds of morals, temperament, etc., otherwise they will be looked down upon. And women often only need to be gentle and beautiful.
Therefore, boys are given stricter requirements than girls. Some people will be rejected if they are at least a little lax during their growth. A girl can get praise and recognition even if her performance is mediocre, and she can be easily forgiven even if she does something wrong.
One person grew up with suppression, and the message he got from other people’s feedback was “I can’t do it.” The other person grew up with praise, and she knew that she was always excellent in the eyes of others.
In this way, it is not surprising that boys would kneel down and lick girls.
In fact, all of the above factors can be attributed to boys' own problems. The following is the core reason that makes boys kneel down. The truth about licking girls:
The cost of love between men and women is different!
Speaking of this, I happened to see a Weibo topic yesterday: Why are all the men in fast food restaurants that cost around ten yuan? Where to eat?
It’s because girls are little fairies, and sitting in such a low and sexy place will destroy her beauty.Is it Yujie’s temperament? Of course not, girls are not as pretentious as you think. If you go out for a walk at night, you can see a lot of girls in the night market, masturbating, drinking from large bottles, and their postures are so bold that you, as a man, will feel free. Ashamed.
The real reason is actually very simple, so simple that you can’t accept it.
That’s because: the cost of love for men is much higher than that for women!
You may find it strange, what does the cost of love have to do with eating cheap fast food?
A house, a car, and money are the three core conditions for a man to get married, and they are also the three big mountains. It can be said that today’s society lacks these three, and almost no girl is willing to marry you.
From pursuit to love, to marriage, from dating to life, the material cost of these things is basically male. When it comes to a relationship, some girls can even do it at zero cost.
Boys have to reduce their living costs for their own life events. They often only dare to spend 500 out of 1,000 earned. Girls dare to spend as much as they earn. They can spend more money for themselves, so naturally there is no need for such cheap consumption.
Therefore, almost all the people who come to cheap and filling places like 10 yuan fast food restaurants to spend money are men.
Many people just can’t figure it out and think it’s unfair. Why do girls take advantage of this? Men are destined to be bullies and horses.
I can’t figure it out, right? Let’s not talk about the well-known reason of “30 million more”. In fact, even if the number of men and women is balanced, the cost of love for men is still higher than that for women.
A man’s belly cannot conceive a child, but as a normal person, we all have the need and responsibility to reproduce, so what should we do? We can only find a woman to complete this with us. Task.
But if a woman wants to give birth to an offspring, she has to pay too much, such as pain, physical weakness, life dangers caused by difficult childbirth, etc. Moreover, during this period, she lost her labor force and had to rely on her partner to provide her with survival resources.
Therefore, the objective differences between men and women determine that boys must pay more materially, so that you can give girls enough sense of security to let her complete the task of reproduction with you.
So the essence of falling in love can be regarded as a transaction, a transaction in which you exchange material things for reproductive rights. Girls are not costless, but your cost is in material things, while her cost is in body.
It is actually fair!
Higher costs mean higher risks and higher difficulty. The result is that boys cherish girls more and are more careful. .
Since the cost is lower for girls, the risks are naturally lower, and their mentality is naturally more open-minded. Even if you are rejected by the boy you like, and she doesn’t need to worry about being orphaned.
