Many boys always take the initiative on their own when chasing girls. If the girls still don't take the initiative after taking the initiative for a long time, they will feel very boring. This state is actually not very good. It is best to guide girls to take the initiative with you, otherwise you may not be able to persist no matter how much you like her. So how should you get girls to come to you?
1. When chasing a girl, you must let her take the initiative
The action of chasing a girl must not be a one-way street. If you take 5 steps towards her, she'd better take 3 steps towards you. . For example, if you treat her to a Sky Lao hotpot, can she also treat you to a skewer? You said no, it’s me who pays the bill every time, right? You can discuss this with her: Today's big meal is finished, do you want to invite me to a movie next time?
Let’s discuss it. If every time you try your best to get closer to her, but she always hides, you can imagine the result!
This is a relatively large and correct logic in love. It is to pursue a girl. This action must be from both sides. Now there is a word called two-way pursuit.
The term "two-way rush" does not mean that both parties are approaching each other quickly, but that one party is approaching faster and the other party is approaching slower.
But in general, both parties must take a step closer to each other. This is the correct way to open up emotions.
Of course, more than ten years ago, there was the kind of thing that only one-way travel can achieve a relationship, but in this era, the generation after 2000 dominates this era of emotions. A one-way trip is unlikely to work.
Of course, you want to let someone you like take even one step closer to you.
2. How to make girls take the initiative to find you
In the process of chasing girls, you can do some actions Attract girls to come to you. It's like when a girl flirts with a boy, she usually just gives some superficial signals and then waits for him to come over. When boys chase girls, they are actually slowly moving in this direction.
For example, the adjective "flirt" has only become popular in recent years because it very accurately describes the emotional state between men and women, which is particularly good. .
"Teasing" is a method of not putting pressure on others. Of course, its side effect is that everyone knows how to tease people, so routines are rampant, and sincerity becomes very important.
So how do you make the other person take one more step towards you? Here are 3 ideas:
1. Constantly brush up on your presence
Sometimes when you chat with girls, they may seem aloof. At this time, you Don't worry about it, you just need to brush up on your presence and chat a few more words with girls. This is called brushing up on presence. Of course, you can also use the display in Moments or any social platform to achieve thisOne purpose.
2. Keep trying vague invitations
In fact, there is no need for vague invitations. You ask a girl if she would like to date you. But no specific time and place were set. From this, you can also judge whether a girl's favorability towards you and whether the window has changed.
3. When a girl’s confidence is low, she will hit the target with one hit.
You have to know that sometimes a girl’s confidence is very low in certain periods of time. That is to say, at this time, you Just show up and you can have some heart-to-heart communication with her. For example, when a girl is frustrated in love, when she is frustrated in the workplace, or when a girl is scolded by her mother. Once you find this opportunity, you can increase the dose, chat with the girl more, and occupy her free time. Then you can seize the right moment and hit the target with one hit.