There are many routines for chatting with girls, but as time goes by, girls have more or less experienced or understood these routines, so many of these old routines are no longer applicable. Below, let’s take a look at the latest chatting routines that can help you easily get the girl you like.
1. Before chatting
No matter what kind of chat routine, you need to establish On the basis of having a certain understanding of the girl, before we start, we need to go through her circle of friends and then see which circle of friends can be used to start the topic.
For example:
1. If you see a pet in a girl’s circle of friends
Then you can chat with her: You like pets, and so do I. Before I raised one...and now...balabala~
2. I saw a girl with children in her friend circle
Then You can chat with her: Your child is so beautiful (naughty chat), my niece is about the same age as your child, do you want to match her... balabala~
3. See the girl’s circle of friends Food
Then you can talk to her: Yeah, I can’t tell you can cook. What do you like to cook? What I usually cook is... home-cooked meals... balabala~
4. When you see a photo of a girl with her boyfriend in her friend circle
Then let’s give up on this. Let’s not talk about whether you can flirt with her or not. Poaching scripts are a big deal. Good thing.
5. If the girl’s circle of friends has no content
Then we can use her nickname, her avatar, her nickname on other social software, all of which are Topic, the key depends on how you think and associate.
2. Strange Stage
This stage is the easiest to chat with, because it is difficult to judge the girl. window.
Therefore, at this stage, what we need to do is to learn to judge clearly whether the other party has a window for us and whether the response to us is good or not. If it takes a long time to reply to you or if it’s just “oh okay/emoticon” every time, it means there is no window, so you shouldn’t continue to take action.
If the response is average and only give a perfunctory answer to your topic, for example: What are you doing---she said: watching TV/shopping/eating, then you can open the topic again and see. Is the other party really giving a perfunctory answer? If it is always the case, then it is not recommended to continue to argue, unless the other party is a girl you really want to get.
If the response is good, it is also appropriate to interact with your topicto open up the topic for you, then it means that she has a window for you at this time, then you can use the fastest way to promote chat: joking, interact with her and tease her to upgrade the atmosphere of your chat. Transition to the acquaintance stage as soon as possible.
3. Familiarity stage
The main manifestation of this stage is that girls are willing to take the initiative to interact and chat with you, and communicate with each other. Starting and continuing the topic, and responding well to your jokes, this means that the girl has a certain liking for you, so she also wants to know more about you and chat with you more. (Don’t get it wrong here. A girl doesn’t chat with you because you are funny, but because she has a good impression of you. Once you have a window, your funnyness will give you extra points, and she will also be willing to joke with you.)
Since joking chatting methods are the easiest way to bring the relationship closer between the two parties, when we reach this stage of chatting with girls, we need to show more of our humorous side and use "irregular" chatting techniques. Go have fun with the other person, stir up the atmosphere of your chat, and make both of you happy.
After reaching this step, you can guide the topic to topics such as food/movies, and then implant Some vague invitations.
For example:
1. When talking about food, tell her to go try it together when you have time.
2. When talking about movies, tell her to go watch it together when you have time.
3. When we talk about scenic spots, tell her to go for a walk together when you have time.
If after you say a vague invitation, the girl responds to you readily and agrees, don’t invite her directly at this time, because at this point in the chat, you are just acquaintances.
Even if she goes out on a date with you, if you don’t have sufficient on-site operation experience, it will be impossible to win. Moreover, due to lack of experience, it is extremely easy to "die in the face" and end the date. After the meeting, the girl's response to you becomes very poor.
Next, we have to continue to test and see the girl’s reaction to us. Based on her reaction, if the reaction is good, we will continue to upgrade. If the reaction is not good, we will go back to normal.
If you can accurately judge your attraction to the other person, and then judge her need for you based on the current chat stage, after combining these two points, release your availability to her, Then you can easily get over this stage and become a couple.
Once the conversation has reached this stage, you can then send out a direct invitation after confirming your free time and agreed-upon location.
