The straight male cancer in the mouth of girls is synonymous with low emotional intelligence. It refers to those macho people who live in their own world, like to judge, and are self-centered. So what are the specific manifestations of these characteristics in life?
1. Like to judge girls
Straight men have their own values ??and think that their values ??are correct , will judge girls once they do not conform to his values.
For example, when you are shopping and see a girl wearing a revealing outfit, you will point to your friends and talk about it together: "This girl must not be serious. I don't know how many men she has had sex with." When you fall in love or get married in the future, you must not find a girl like this. "
If he is a friend or acquaintance with a girl, he will stand in a high social position, guide and educate the girl, and make comments about the girl. Said: "Women should be more serious, reserved and restrained. Boys like good girls who are serious. If you dress like this, no man will ask you to be your girlfriend."
Because you are straight. Men always like to point fingers and judge girls, so girls will stay away from straight men and will not choose to open up to straight men or fall in love with straight men.
If you want to start a relationship with a girl, you must not judge the girl. If you judge the girl, the girl will not show her truest side to you. You must learn to accept girls, so that girls will show their truest side to you and quickly choose to fall in love with you.
2. Virginity complex
The virginity complex can also be regarded as a judgment on girls, when straight men fall in love , you must require your girlfriend to be a virgin, then you can truly love yourself. If you have had sex with other boys before falling in love with you, you will think that she is a playboy and you will be disgusted with her.
A friend of mine has a girlfriend who is his high school classmate. They have been in a relationship for two years. Both families are urging them to get things done quickly, so that they can save worry and everyone is happy. But when it was time to get engaged, my friend regretted it, and the two-year relationship ended in a breakup. Later, when we were having dinner together, my friend told me the truth about the breakup. His girlfriend had been in love once before, but by the time they got together, her girlfriend was no longer a virgin. Because of this, he was always worried about it. I can't let go, always thinking in my mind, "When I fall in love with her, she should be with me first. How can she have sex with other boys first?"
That's it, because of the virginity complex. , what a pity it is that two people who love each other have no choice but to break up.
In the definition of straight men’s thinking, a girlfriend must be devoted to herself and cannot have relationships with other boys. This is how she loves herself, and it is precisely because of thisThis kind of idea is why girls hate him.
3. Macho chauvinism
Because of traditional family education, the values ????in the minds of straight men believe that: Men are superior to women, and women should stay at home to support their husbands and educate their children. When straight men are with girls, they believe that they should have the final say in everything, and women should listen to them. Once they don't listen, they will be very irritable, thinking that women have violated their wishes, scolding girls, and even attacking girls. This is Domestic violence occurs in many families.
Even though information is transmitted very quickly now, there are still many boys who still insist on machismo, whether in love or marriage.
After marriage, some boys will ask girls not to go out to work, but to stay at home to do housework, have children, and educate children. In a society where men and women are equal, the male chauvinism of straight men will make girls Very disgusting.
4. Think that if a girl doesn’t reject you, she will accept it
Straight men’s thinking is relatively straight-line. Originally, girls have no interest in you at all, but it’s just because they haven’t rejected you. You start to think of yourself as a boyfriend, and you usually demand the other person according to your boyfriend's standards. If the other person usually has some contact with other boys, just ask this and that, as if the other person has done something sorry for you...
For such a person who is prone to one of the three major illusions in life, she likes me. He's a straight man, and girls really can't help but hate him.
5. Does not create romance
In the eyes of straight men, there is no word romance at all, or He said that he didn’t know what romance was at all. You must know that girls are born to like romance and always think of many beautiful things. However, straight men often make girls’ beautiful and romantic illusions shattered, so girls hate these types of boys very much. I don’t want to get along with this type of boy.
If any one of the above five characteristics appears, you will become a straight man in the eyes of girls, so if you don’t want to be disliked by the girl you are chasing, then make changes quickly.
