Many people think that as long as you enter the ambiguous period with a girl, you can slowly establish a relationship, but the ambiguous relationship is actually just a time for two people to get to know each other. If you do not create enough attraction for the other person during this period, , it is very likely that girls will suddenly become cold, and that ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold, what should boys do?
1. Timely Confirming the relationship
Maintaining ambiguity is a very dangerous thing. Sometimes it is really not a good thing for too long, and it can easily make you tired.
Some girls are naturally more reserved and like to think wildly. Maybe she has given you some hints before, but you have not acted yet.
I know, you may be afraid that girls will dislike you, but your mouth is so irritating that girls may misunderstand you accidentally.
In this way, your inattention and lack of initiative will cause the girl to suspect that you don't actually like her, but just use her as a pastime when you are lonely.
She vetoed it herself before you had time to explain. Is it unfair or not?
2. The sense of need is too strong
You are already flirting with girls. Girls know your little thoughts, but you have to emphasize them again and again, creating a feeling for her that is not hers. The feeling of inadequacy.
Although she also likes you, the harder you push her, the more pressure she will feel. The sense of need is so exposed that before you can force her away, you have already forced yourself into a bitch.
If this is the case for you, then you can disconnect from her appropriately and go back to her in a few days. Don’t chat for too long.
If she asks you for help, you can also say that next time, next time, let her know that your life is not centered on her, so that her psychological pressure may be reduced a lot.
3. Interfering in girls’ lives
Do you always like to be jealous and like to control girls?
In fact, it is okay for you to express your jealousy occasionally , but the mistake is that you got too involved in the drama and arranged a "dad" role for yourself in advance.
During the inspection period, you have shown your "overbearing CEO" side. Who can stand being with you? Who likes boys who are overly possessive?
4. You have been spared
Do you feel uncertain when you are ambiguous, and are you not sure whether she feels the same way? She likes you, so she doesn’t dare to confess her love?
Is it true that her computer is broken and she wants you to help repair it; she hasn’t finished her homework yet, so she wants you to help her catch up on the paper, and then give it to you in the end? Say "You are the best to me"".
No, no, you don't know yet, you may be just a tool person.
In fact, all uncertainties are due to insufficient Like. Like means asking for warmth, being cautious, and you know the look in her eyes.
Those things you think she likes about you are just superficial good feelings. Those good mornings and good nights you care about. Ah, they may just be sending messages in groups, and it just so happens that you respond. Ambiguity is a game where you can afford to lose, and you must be prepared for the other party to withdraw at any time.
Although ambiguity is delicious, please don't be greedy all the time, because someone who really likes you won't let time waste forever.
