The so-called feeling of girls is actually emotional value. It is more like a 'feeling' that is generated on the basis of 'being full of conflicts and contradictions, but also feeling that the relationship has a very safe background.'
Sometimes this feeling is stimulating and exciting, sometimes it is gentle and comfortable, sometimes there is distance but you want to contact, sometimes your Existence can give her the courage to break through herself and so on.
In the process of getting along, at different times and in different relationships, girls have different requirements for emotional value.
Before dating, a girl’s requirements for the passionate part will be very high. If you take her to participate in an escape room, it will trigger the suspension bridge effect and make her rely on and trust you; you take the initiative to pursue love and express love. Romantic scenes and dark candlelight dinners can make girls excited and emotionally empowered to make decisions and accept you.
This stage: Passion>Security>Intimacy
After dating, especially after the passion period, girls’ requirements for relationship intimacy and security are greater than their need for passion. She will be eager to live more in-depth with you, understand each other, have practical intersections in life, and find evidence that you love her in the details of life.
This stage: Intimacy>Security>Passion
Of course it will vary from person to person, what I am talking about now is universality.
The first level of comfort is a sense of scope.
For example, it includes that you are a funny and humorous boy, you have high quotient and you can catch people's attention, you are not painful when communicating, you can say what you want and speak freely, and you can also show tolerance and echo;
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For girls, a boy who is tolerant and emotionally stable can provide a certain degree of comfort in getting along with him. On this basis, as long as you are not as dull as a piece of wood, you can accept it.
The relationship that girls want is "you take me into your heart and feel that I am a very important person to you. Even if you don't contact me, Always think of her, care about her in detail, and make her feel considerate, cared for and loved.”
For example, you can prepare gifts and gifts specially for anniversaries, birthdays, etc. without reminding you; spend money and time. Let her see her value in your eyes; you will remember dating anniversaries, menstrual periods, her preferences and living habits, etc.
Therefore, these will be reflected in the ‘expectations’ for the rituals of life and the ‘expectations’ for an ideal boyfriend.
It’s normal for straight men to not be able to do these things, but if you can’t do it, you haven’t met her expectations. She may not respond on the spot, but she must secretly give you points in her heart. I feel like you don't love him and don't care about your relationship. This is why I sometimes feel that sensitive girls are stingy. realI don't know why I offended her.
After this point is satisfied, advance to the third level.
At this level, you will start to become a little bit bad. What a nice guy, who provides all-round services and care in every aspect, reports to her at all times to make her feel safe, openly talks to her about everything, etc. It seems that there is nothing wrong with him, but there is always a lack of attractive men in the relationship. Some passion.
The boys who really make girls blush and feel their hearts beat must be a little bit ‘disobedient’.
After going through many tests from girls, it’s time to reach this level. If the more she gets to know you, the more she realizes that you don’t just let her do everything, but you have your own opinions on everything. When facing conflicts, you can resolve them through your personal abilities on the one hand, and on the other hand, you can use a strong attitude to fight for the interests of both parties or When protecting her. They are not honest when they get along internally, and they can satisfy each other like LSP.
It is at this time that the ambivalence is satisfied based on a true sense of security.
That’s why girls don’t like dog licking, even though dog licking is particularly good for them. They may accept dog-licking because they are moved temporarily, but they will never find dog-licking MAN attractive. On the contrary, I like people who go their own way.
Girls are indeed attracted by strong hard conditions. As long as you have the hard conditions and personal charm to activate the biological nature of girls, you can make girls mentally excited, or you can feel the attention to details and interaction during the relationship. Once a girl is emotionally invested in a frog-boiled environment for a long time and has a bad and masculine taste based on a sense of security, it will become increasingly difficult for girls to leave such a man.
Of course, we still need to use it as an emotional lubricant to enhance mutual understanding in the process of serious communication.
Understand what girls want in terms of emotional value, and use your own strengths and avoid weaknesses, then you will definitely be a charming man in the eyes of girls.
