Some of the behaviors of boys may not seem like much to you, but when they appear in the process of getting along with girls, they will appear very cheap and even cause resentment in girls. Below, I’ll give you some popular science on some of the most price-destroying behaviors of men, and see which ones you have.
1. Often say casually
Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, saying these two words will make you feel uncomfortable The other party was bursting with anger!
Previously, I helped my brothers analyze how to respond to girls saying "whatever", because this word is an out-and-out problem of the century, and is classified as a male-female one. One of the most annoying words to hear in a relationship ranks high on the list.
When girls say "whatever", boys are tired of dealing with it. If there is no place to vent their anger, how can it be better for boys to say "whatever"? In the eyes of girls, it is also very bad!
< p>For example, if she happily invites you to dinner and asks you what you want to eat, and you say "whatever", she will feel that eating with her is not a happy thing, and the girl's enthusiasm will be dampened in an instant. A basin of cold water.Especially when some boys say "casual" is not enough, they have to come up with a special trick: girls may not understand what his casualness is, and express their confusion directly. Boys can say "Whatever is casual." The result is that the girl thinks that he doesn't respect her, and the date ends badly.
Some people may want to refute: When a boy says he is casual, sometimes he is really casual. What is wrong with this?
It is indeed true. Boys’ casualness is often really casual. When a boy says he can eat whatever he wants, he will basically accept it if you specify a place at random. He won't be like a girl who says "no" or "no" or "can that thing be eaten?".
Brothers who have questions, you may have forgotten one thing: girls hate multiple-choice questions. She will ask you because she is not willing to choose.
Now you push the question back to her. A girl will judge others by herself and judge a boy's attitude by her own attitude towards "whatever". She feels that you answer her with "whatever", which is also true. He wanted to make things difficult for her, so it would be strange for her to be happy.
Secondly, the word "casual" is really devoid of warmth, giving off a cold feeling of strangeness and lack of emotion.
So boys can say casual to strangers, and they can also say casual to friends, but they cannot say casual to girls they like!
Especially when the girl is very happy, you How could I bear to send her away with the cold word "whatever".
Even if you are really casual, you should give her a clear answer to let her know that you are always interested in her.
2. Speaking dirty words
Some people speak more casually and often start with national curses. , open your mouth and close your mouth, that’s someoneWhen he is happy, surprised, or excited, he likes to use me to express the intensity of his emotions.
If you have a few very close friends and you can do whatever you want, but if you still can’t change this habit in front of girls, then you really have a solitary constitution.
This kind of habit will make girls shy away and not even interested in getting to know you. Although you may not have any malicious intentions, girls always feel uncomfortable listening to you. If you want to hear you talk about these organ terms and indescribable behaviors every day, there is absolutely no way for her to not mind.
Say something unpleasant. If you have this habit, even a girl who also has the habit of making dirty remarks can’t stand you! Chatting between such two people is no different from scolding each other. If life Together, we probably spend every day in a hurry.
I guess many brothers are deeply saddened by this problem of theirs, but what should they do if they just can’t change it. To be honest, it's not that you can't change the habit of swearing. The most important thing is self-control. A habit is naturally a very powerful force of inertia. If you don't put some pressure on yourself and let it go, you really can't change it.
3. No sense of responsibility
A sense of responsibility is the core quality of a qualified man. Who agrees with this? Who objects?
If a man has no sense of responsibility, dares not take responsibility, and cannot do what he says, he will make girls feel very insecure.
Because he will definitely lose his temper and forget his promise at the critical moment. If a girl urgently needs his help, he doesn't know where to hide. Moreover, it is difficult for such a man to achieve the goals he has set and will not really work hard to improve his own value.
Such a man who likes to break his promises and get fat and is always afraid of taking responsibility will not be able to keep a girl even if he catches him. The girl starts with him with extremely high expectations and then ends with disappointment. .
4. No image
Not particular about hygiene, unkempt beard, uneven nails, and oily hair every day Damn, these give people the impression that this person seems to have no fixed abode and does not even have the conditions to clean up himself.
And there are quite a few boys who don’t pay much attention to their own smell. They wear sweaty clothes for several days, coupled with the smell of cigarettes, their whole bodies exude a strange "fragrance", which is sour. It's refreshing, not to mention how exciting it is!
This is why girls hate boys smoking so much. The taste problem is one of the reasons that girls hate the most. It gives girls the most direct sensory stimulation and disgust. Degrees go far beyond health issues.
