In fact, when they fall in love for the first time, everyone is full of expectations for love. However, because they have little love experience and are not mature enough, many people's first love ends in failure. Let me share with you the taboos of first love, which both boys and girls should know, hoping to improve the success rate of your first love.
1. Sincerity
In fact, no matter whether it is your first love or not, you must be sincere! Both boys and girls should pay attention to this. When you first fall in love, it will be an unforgettable memory when you think about it in the future, so no matter what, you must be sincere and be good to yourself and others. Don't think that you want to fall in love too because you see everyone around you falling in love. With this idea, you can just find someone to fall in love with. Such a relationship is not sincere from the beginning.
2. Slow development
When a man and a woman fall in love for the first time, it is easy to fall into boredom. situation, because first love is green, beautiful and fresh for both parties. At this time, you may think about being with the other person all the time, holding hands, hugging and kissing (hey, this is very shy to talk about, I don’t know why). In fact, the most important thing about falling in love is to understand each other. If the water flows slowly, it will be too boring at first. Then how will you live the ordinary life in the future? It is better to take your time.
Furthermore, when you focus your whole attention on the other person and worry about whether your poor performance today will make him/her have a bad impression of you... you will lose yourself. This will happen over time. It will make the other party lose interest, and in serious cases, it will make the other party feel annoyed, so the best way is: do what you have to do! Improve your personality charm and make the other person feel that you are more and more attractive to her! This way the relationship can last longer.
3. Handle quarrels well
Arguments are unavoidable when you first fall in love, and quarrels are actually the most emotionally damaging, so you must handle them well after the quarrel. Girls, don't be emotional, be rational, analyze the source of the problem clearly, and speak politely. Boys should not blindly reason and try to persuade girls. When the time comes, you will win with reason but lose with feelings, and you will have no place to cry.
4. Pay attention to protecting yourself
In today’s open society, it is actually normal to fall in love and have relationships. But in this process, I hope that both boys and girls will pay attention. When the love is deep in bed (hey, if you understand this), you must pay attention to protecting each other. Girls should love themselves well, and boys should also do the same. It is very important for girls to behave in a responsible manner, so pay attention!
5. About spending money on love
In fact, spending money on love is not entirely a matter of boys. Of course, boys have to take the bulk of the responsibility, and daughters also have to pay occasionally. The suggestion is that both parties contribute, give each other gifts, treat each other to meals,This way the relationship can last longer.
The first love should actually be very beautiful. I hope you can stay with the person you fell in love with for the first time until the end.
