Question:
Let me talk about my own conditions first: In 1992, I was an only child in a certain first-tier city. I had a physical examination of 169 before going abroad. I was said to be 1.7 meters tall and weighed 75kg. Because I suffered from congenital myopia, His appearance is not good for the audience, but he went to study in the UK and got a diploma.
Family conditions: The most valuable thing in the family is probably an industrial park (with partial shares) in a first-tier city. There are villas, real estate, cars and several companies. There is also a factory with an annual output value of 9 figures (also partially owned).
Personality: When we first met, she was relatively introverted, had a good temper, and rarely lost her temper. But I like to joke around with my acquaintances and friends, and occasionally I will do it. Most of my classmates and friends like to play with me after they get to know me.
Emotional experience: Although I look unworthy of society, some girls still liked me when I was in middle school. My first love was with the school belle... It was a wonderful memory for me when we first got together. Later, after a long time, we had several quarrels and I doubted my life.
Current situation: I didn’t know until I went to college that girls like me can take the initiative. There were also pretty girls among them, but after my first love, I completely lost confidence in love and marriage. I felt that I didn’t look good enough for society, so there was no need to get married. But now that I am almost thirty, I am the only child at home, and my parents are beginning to push me, so I have to start thinking about marriage. Are you a girl who is very confused now and doesn’t know what conditions are suitable for you? I feel like now it’s all because of my family conditions. As far as I am concerned, I still look forward to a marriage based on love. I want to ask:
How to test whether a girl likes me or my money
Answer:
First of all, a man’s appearance does not come first. You don't have to feel too inferior. Many successful people are quite unattractive, but with the blessing of temperament and aura, they are very mature and independent, and they can also attract women.
You are worried that girls don’t really like you, but like your money. Considering your family conditions, I think it is understandable. People get what they want when they are together, but some people show it very clearly, while some people hide it deeply. Even if you choose a buddy or a friend, you would still choose someone with whom you can chat, eat together, or have common interests and hobbies. Getting along with you is comfortable, effortless, and hassle-free.
The same goes for choosing a mate. Only when we meet each other's needs, that is, if we see each other in the right eye, can we achieve success. But even if a girl is after your money, she must at least show that she loves you very much and take practical actions to care about you, be considerate of you, and take care of you, otherwise you will not be with her.
Maybe you will say that I don’t need it, and I don’t want to spend money to buy it.Seeing these hypocritical things, I just want someone who simply recognizes me and loves my personality. Even if I don't spend money on her, she will never leave me. There's nothing wrong with that, you can also look for it this way. It's ugly to say that no matter how much money you have, if you don't spend it on her, won't she miss it in vain? You can't suffer any loss, so why should you be confused?
In fact, given your conditions, there is no need to feel inferior, and there is no need to stop eating because of choking. Go meet girls openly, confess your love to the one you like, and continue dating if you don't meet the right one. And you have to have a normal mind that "the other party has plans for you, and you also have requirements for the other party." Some women value money, but that’s not wrong. Everyone has the life they want. If you don't like this kind of woman, just don't choose her. At the same time, be careful to recognize people with an eye, and don’t spend a lot of money on others easily.
Finally, let me say something ugly. If a girl pretends to love you and be very nice to you all her life just for your money, then you should also respect her as a tomboy. You can't control other people's true thoughts, and you can't even understand them, but your actions are real. You should make your own judgment about who treats you well.
