Nowadays, there are more and more single men and women, and the reason why these people don’t want to fall in love is not because they are not qualified enough and can’t find a partner, but because they feel that being single is better than being in a relationship. What is the reason for this? What about?
1. Being single is very free
No need to worry about what to eat for dinner, no need to choose to watch love Whether it's a movie or a science and technology movie, you don't have to worry about which city to travel to, and you don't have to worry about whether to sacrifice love for career or career for love.
Because a person can eat Western food if he wants, Chinese food if he wants, watch romance movies if he wants, go wherever he wants, go on a business trip if he wants, whatever he wants. Go home when you want.
You never have to do something you don’t like just to accommodate another person.
2. Don’t want to make do with it
Many people really don’t like that kind of “fast food” love. It’s so fast that it can make you doubt your life every minute. Just look at a selfie and you’ll be disappointed. He said that he liked her, and after checking the Moments for a few days, he said, "You are my type." After meeting him a few times, he said, "I have decided to pursue you."
This kind of emotion really makes people feel quite ridiculous and quite cheap.
What's more, you don't understand the books and movies I like to read, and I'm not interested in the games and topics you're passionate about. What are two people like this doing together?
So, forget it.
3. Working and making money makes people feel more secure
In this era, it seems that every girl No one has a sense of security. The introduction of the "New Marriage Law" makes us dare not be poor, and we cannot be poor, because it protects the rights and interests of property owners, and directly ignores a woman's ten-month pregnancy, one-day delivery and the relationship between women and children. All the dedication of this family.
However, we all understand that "mountains will fall if they rely on them, but people will run if they rely on them" and "people's hearts change day and night."
Therefore, what truly belongs to us and can be firmly held in our hands will give us a little sense of security.
4. I want to be alone doing what I like
I want to sleep until I wake up naturally in the morning, follow the tutorials to make delicious pizza by myself, I want to not go out all day, and wear loose clothes pajamas, barefoot wandering around the room, watching movies, reading books, taking a rest when tired, and finding something to eat when I wake up.
There is no need to worry about coaxing another person or worrying that he will get bored.
After all, life is so tiring. Sometimes, I just think about nothing and do nothing.
5. You can do whatever you like
Actually, I like to go to the gym right after work. I can sweat heartily, take a hot bath, and go shopping in the mall hand in hand with my best friends. It’s really enjoyable and comfortable.
When the two of us are together, I always have to worry about whether you have gotten off work or whether you have eaten, and I have to try my best to prove on the phone that I am really with my best friend.
It’s really tiring.
6. There will be no emotional entanglements
Romantic relationships have more emotional entanglements than relationships between friends and colleagues. It is a "drama of love, hate, and hatred." They will be bound by feelings of jealousy, possessiveness and dependence. There will also be cases where love gives rise to hatred, and if topics such as breakup are mixed in, the mental burden will double. You may also suffer from stalking, violence, etc. The uncontrollable feelings that arise within oneself may cause one to fall into self-loathing.
In fact, in summary, so many reasons for being single are because you have not met the right person. When you meet the person you love and loves you, then I believe these reasons for being single will be thrown away. Behind the head.
