When chasing a girl, if the girl has no feelings for you at all, it will be difficult to catch her no matter what method you use, and it can easily become a backup or a bitch. If there is no way to chase a girl, what will she do?
1. You have to chat with her for the second time before she can reply to you.
When you take the initiative to chat with a girl, she will never reply to you the first time. She will not reply until you talk to her the second time, and the content of her reply to you is very perfunctory, so basically You can conclude that you are out of luck.
For example:
You: What are you doing? She didn’t reply. At 10 o’clock in the evening, you asked her again: Are you busy? She replied disdainfully: What’s the matter?
This shows that it’s not that she didn’t see your message, but because she is busy, or because she doesn’t want to deal with you at all.
In this case, you can either give up or stop actively looking for her, spend time and energy on improving yourself, improve your image, and chat with her after a while.
2. You are always looking for a topic when chatting with a cold response
In the content of chatting with girls, You say 80% of the time, and it's basically you who take the initiative to find topics to talk about. She never takes the initiative to provide topics, which is also a sign of failure.
As we all know, chatting is a matter between two people. If you are just talking and looking for topics, and she doesn’t provide any topics and is just perfunctory, then stop chatting.
Because this shows that she does not want to share any of her values ??with you. Generally speaking, even introverted girls who are slightly interested in boys will share more or less about their lives and experiences. , will also take over the topic baton to chat, so, do you understand?
3. After chatting for a long time, I can’t make a date< /h2>
You have been chatting with a girl for a long time. Although you feel that the conversation is good, when you ask her out, she always refuses for various reasons.
This situation is quite special. Generally, when this happens, it means that she is still interested in you first, so you can have a good chat, but you can't make a date. It may be due to these two reasons:
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First, she doesn’t feel safe with you, so she doesn’t accept the invitation. If this is the problem, you just need to further fill in the sense of security and familiarity.
The second is that she purely treats you as a tool to vent her emotions or only chat with you when she is happy, and enjoys this subtle relationship. She may treat you as a friend or as a person. You act as a spare tire, and this situation is very detrimental to you.
So what you have to do now is to take a step back, giving her a sense of crisis and maintaining her own sense of mystery. If she takes the initiative to find you, don't be so proactive. Use this method to adjust the relationship first, from the original relationship that is not good for you to a correct love pursuit relationship, so that girls realize that you are a good partner, not a good venting tool. If you continue to pursue you at this time, the relationship can be upgraded. .
Of course, there are other manifestations, and you may also consider not pursuing them so actively for the time being. For example, if she is perfunctory with you when chatting, etc., you don't need to be so proactive in her behavior.
