There is nothing wrong with boys taking the initiative to buy things, give gifts, and send red envelopes to the girls they like, because it is the boy's initiative. But if a girl takes the initiative to ask a boy to buy things for her, even if the boy really likes her, he will feel a little uncomfortable. Let me analyze what it means when a girl asks a boy to buy something for her?
1. Girls are interested in your money
If a girl always asks you to buy this or that, the most she can say to you is "I love you". , but in fact she didn't pay anything for you at all. It's obvious that the woman is just interested in your money. Don't be stupid, in other people's eyes she is just using you to get everything she wants. It’s not that I have some feelings for you, likes you or even loves you, so I just deceive people like you to make a lot of stupid money. I guess I was seen through by others and didn't benefit from it. Just having you is enough.
To be honest, a girl or your girlfriend who really likes and loves you will not often ask you to spend money on her. Buy her everything she wants, because she will be very sensible and know that no matter how much other people's money is, it belongs to others. Of course, it is natural to give gifts during the holidays. Even if you take the initiative to give it to her, she may not be able to resist after repeatedly rejecting it. Only then will you accept it, or if you give her something she likes very much, she will naturally be very happy.
2. Girls want to test you
There is a popular saying among girls: "If you want to see if a man really loves you, just see if he is really willing to spend money for you." Money?” So sometimes when a girl asks a boy to buy something for her, it may be a test. She wants to see if you really like her. In fact, this method is not advisable, but many boys may do it in order to prove their love for girls, but the results may not be so good, because girls who simply rely on spending money to prove their love actually have problems with their values. .
When encountering this situation, it is recommended that boys talk to girls more. Although love and feelings are related, they are not the decisive factor. If a If a girl only cares about money, then there is no need for you to spend time on her.
3. A girl wants to develop a relationship with you
If you are a girl, you are in the ambiguous stage. He seems to like you a little bit, and it happens to be Christmas and Valentine's Day. She said to you with red cheeks, "Do you want to give me a small gift?" Then send it quickly. The price is not important, girls want to see your attitude, and they might give you a gift in return. Things will fall into place for you two.
In short, gifts out of emotion are the fun in life and one of the ways to express love.
But if it is a girl, you have just met her not long ago. You pursued her, but he didn'tExpress my attitude towards you, but I ask you for a bag worth several thousand dollars today and shoes worth several thousand dollars tomorrow. Still have the attitude that if you like it, you should buy it for me. Then it's not clear what he takes you for? Even if you two start to fall in love later, she should think that you have good financial conditions. Can be relied upon. It's better to stay as far away from such girls as possible, unless you have money and don't care.
