The success rate of chatting up girls on WeChat is actually very low, because when you first add a girl, they must be wary of you, fearing that you are a liar or a scumbag.
So what are the techniques for chatting on WeChat to eliminate girls’ wariness?
1 , A good circle of friends
When chatting on WeChat, the circle of friends is the top priority. If you think about a girl you just added on WeChat, you will definitely check her circle of friends first and then get to know her. In fact, girls will also check your circle of friends. If your display area is full of worthless advertisements, negative energy information, chicken soup articles, etc., then it will be difficult for girls to understand you, and they will definitely be wary of you. Basically I have no desire to continue chatting with you.
Therefore, try to have some positive energy in your circle of friends, something that can show your lifestyle and your taste. You can use pre-selection to get along with different people of the opposite sex, participate in group activities, and take photos with different people of the opposite sex. Let her know that you have no shortage of friends of the opposite sex, so that she will feel more at ease.
Showing your friends of the opposite sex is much more useful than showing other things. Very attractive. Don't let her feel that you are lacking the opposite sex around you, as this will only reduce your own value.
Another thing to remember is never to post selfies of yourself. Unless you are very handsome. I have asked many girls before what they hate most when boys post on their WeChat Moments. Many girls say it’s a “selfie”
. Confidence is a good thing, but don’t use it indiscriminately.
2. Establish a sense of security through chatting
Girls are born with a lack of sense of security. Chatting with strangers makes her feel even less secure. Therefore, after we have a good circle of friends, the first thing we need to do is to establish a sense of security, which is to prove that you are well-intentioned and not a bad person. This way the girl will feel comfortable chatting with you.
The opening words of a WeChat chat are very important. Many people start with "Girl, are you dating?" "Beauty, where are you from?"
This will only make the sense of security established in your circle of friends disappear in an instant.
In fact, a simple opening is fine, but don’t expose your sense of need. There is still a long way to go. If you are too anxious to chase a girl, you can’t eat hot tofu. .
In the next chat, you need to slowly develop your small skills. Don't believe that "you can get her by pleasing her", but believe that "the method of stimulating generals may be more useful."
Female: Use these tricks of yours on little girls, they are of no use to me.
You: Well... Actually, I want to borrow money from you...
Sister, I won’t disdain your experience.
Hahaha, I just want to practice with you.
Either change the topic or suppress her.
Female:...
You: Silence is golden, you can become a rich woman like this.
Remember, humor is very important. No matter what she posts, you have to learn to have a broad mind and multiple ways of thinking. To establish a harmonious and interesting interaction mode from the beginning, her wariness will naturally be lowered.
3. Invite through chat
When chatting on WeChat, we definitely don’t just want to chat. The ultimate goal is to ask her out to meet and make further progress. So after you ensure that you can have a happy chat with the girl and eliminate her wariness, you can use the following method to stimulate her hormones and invite her out.
You: I ate some bread and milkshake in the morning
Girl: I haven’t eaten yet in the morning
You: I can drink some milkshake and mix it with it Banana, banana is a good food, lick it, right?
Girl:...
In fact, as long as the girl replies to you, you can continue the conversation. There are many similar objects,
For example, sausages and mineral water bottles. You must know more than me.
For another example, the girl said: I see you feel so small.
The girl was obviously talking about your age, but you deliberately replied like this:
You must be short-sighted. You saw it wrong. I am not young. This is misinterpretation, taking the original meaning expressed by the girl in a sentence and secretly changing the concept into another meaning to achieve a humorous effect. This technique is the most commonly used in chat, and it is also the most lethal.
From shallow to deep, when you arouse her hormones and then send out an invitation, she will definitely not refuse.